[Script Info] Title: [Events] Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text Dialogue: 0,0:00:00.00,0:00:06.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Every marriage has clashes, but not every clash builds marriage. Dialogue: 0,0:00:06.77,0:00:12.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Disagreements are part of any godly union. Dialogue: 0,0:00:12.27,0:00:15.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But disagreements should lead to greater agreement. Dialogue: 0,0:00:15.83,0:00:20.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Misunderstanding should produce greater understanding. Dialogue: 0,0:00:20.60,0:00:27.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When we waste our misunderstandings, Dialogue: 0,0:00:27.70,0:00:34.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,rather than learning from them, we end up repeating them. Dialogue: 0,0:00:34.50,0:00:44.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that is a common cause of love growing cold - because we’re living in the past. Dialogue: 0,0:00:44.17,0:00:48.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You remind your husband of the past. Dialogue: 0,0:00:48.23,0:00:52.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You remind your wife of the past when conflicts come Dialogue: 0,0:00:52.90,0:00:55.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and so you end up repeating them, Dialogue: 0,0:00:55.60,0:00:59.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,rather than learning from them, rather than growing through them. Dialogue: 0,0:00:59.67,0:01:01.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Misunderstanding must come. Dialogue: 0,0:01:01.83,0:01:03.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Disagreement must come. Dialogue: 0,0:01:03.63,0:01:05.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Conflict must come. Dialogue: 0,0:01:05.37,0:01:10.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But as Christians who understand the past is over, Dialogue: 0,0:01:10.00,0:01:14.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we are to learn from them, grow through them. Dialogue: 0,0:01:14.40,0:01:18.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There's a difference between life experience and life lessons.