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Kila ndoa ina migongano, lakini si kila mgongano hujenga ndoa.

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Kutoelewana ni sehemu ya muungano wowote wa kimungu.

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Lakini kutoelewana kunapaswa kusababisha maelewano zaidi.

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Kutokuelewana kunapaswa kuzalisha uelewa zaidi.

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Tunapopoteza kutokuelewana kwetu,

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badala ya kujifunza kutoka kwao, tunaishia kuzirudia.

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Na hiyo ni sababu ya kawaida ya upendo kukua baridi - kwa sababu tunaishi zamani.

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Unamkumbusha mume wako ya zamani.

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Unamkumbusha mke wako mambo ya nyuma wakati migogoro inakuja

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na kwa hivyo unaishia kuzirudia,

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badala ya kujifunza kutoka kwao, badala ya kukua kupitia kwao.

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Kutokuelewana lazima kuja.

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Kutokubaliana lazima kuja.

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Migogoro lazima ije.

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Lakini kama Wakristo wanaoelewa yaliyopita yamekwisha,

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tunapaswa kujifunza kutoka kwao, kukua kupitia kwao.

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Kuna tofauti kati ya uzoefu wa maisha na masomo ya maisha.