WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:07.000 Ukweli kwamba mtu anakujali haimaanishi ana nia njema. 00:00:07.000 --> 00:00:15.400 Ukweli kwamba mtu yuko tayari kukusikiliza haimaanishi kuwa mtu huyo anakupenda. 00:00:15.400 --> 00:00:21.560 Kuna wengi wenye masikio yawashao lakini mioyo yao michanga. 00:00:21.560 --> 00:00:25.960 Je, unalalamika kwa mtu fulani ili akujali 00:00:25.960 --> 00:00:29.960 au unajiaminisha kwa mtu fulani ili kupata suluhu? 00:00:29.960 --> 00:00:37.160 Kwa sababu ikiwa unapendezwa zaidi na huruma kuliko suluhisho, 00:00:37.160 --> 00:00:43.360 yawezekana ukaudhabihu uadilifu wako kwenye madhabahu ya matatizo yako.