0:00:00.240,0:00:03.776 Pat Mitchell: So I was thinking[br]about female friendship a lot, 0:00:03.800,0:00:06.056 and by the way, these two women, 0:00:06.080,0:00:07.456 I'm very honored to say, 0:00:07.480,0:00:10.416 have been my friends[br]for a very long time, too. 0:00:10.440,0:00:11.656 Jane Fonda: Yes we have. 0:00:11.680,0:00:15.176 PM: And one of the things[br]that I read about female friendship 0:00:15.200,0:00:16.816 is something that Cervantes said. 0:00:16.840,0:00:20.216 He said, "You can tell[br]a lot about someone," 0:00:20.240,0:00:21.456 in this case a woman, 0:00:21.480,0:00:23.896 "by the company that she keeps." 0:00:23.920,0:00:25.136 So let's start with -- 0:00:25.160,0:00:27.360 (Laughter) 0:00:28.320,0:00:29.936 JF: We're in big trouble. 0:00:29.960,0:00:31.936 Lily Tomlin: Hand me one of those waters, 0:00:31.960,0:00:33.176 I'm extremely dry. 0:00:33.200,0:00:35.040 (Laughter) 0:00:41.000,0:00:42.720 JF: You're taking up our time. 0:00:43.640,0:00:44.936 We have a very limited -- 0:00:44.960,0:00:47.296 LT: Just being with her[br]sucks the life out of me. 0:00:47.320,0:00:50.096 (Laughter) 0:00:50.120,0:00:51.856 JF: You ain't seen nothing yet. 0:00:51.880,0:00:53.096 Anyway -- sorry. 0:00:53.120,0:00:57.496 PM: So tell me, what do you[br]look for in a friend? 0:00:57.520,0:01:00.096 LT: I look for someone[br]who has a sense of fun, 0:01:00.120,0:01:03.096 who's audacious, 0:01:03.120,0:01:06.576 who's forthcoming, who has politics, 0:01:06.600,0:01:11.456 who has even a small scrap[br]of passion for the planet, 0:01:11.480,0:01:14.096 someone who's decent,[br]has a sense of justice 0:01:14.120,0:01:16.216 and who thinks I'm worthwhile. 0:01:16.240,0:01:18.216 (Laughter) 0:01:18.240,0:01:21.000 (Applause) 0:01:22.760,0:01:24.776 JF: You know, I was thinking this morning, 0:01:24.800,0:01:27.616 I don't even know what I would do[br]without my women friends. 0:01:27.640,0:01:30.656 I mean it's, "I have my friends,[br]therefore I am." 0:01:30.680,0:01:31.896 LT: (Laughter) 0:01:31.920,0:01:33.136 JF: No, it's true. 0:01:33.160,0:01:35.399 I exist because I have[br]my women friends. They -- 0:01:36.320,0:01:37.536 You're one of them. 0:01:37.560,0:01:39.322 I don't know about you. But anyway -- 0:01:39.346,0:01:40.496 (Laughter) 0:01:40.520,0:01:43.096 You know, they make me stronger,[br]they make me smarter, 0:01:43.120,0:01:44.696 they make me braver. 0:01:44.720,0:01:49.496 They tap me on the shoulder when I might[br]be in need of course-correcting. 0:01:49.520,0:01:52.216 And most of them are[br]a good deal younger than me, too. 0:01:52.240,0:01:54.896 You know? I mean, it's nice --[br]LT: Thank you. 0:01:54.920,0:01:57.376 (Laughter) 0:01:57.400,0:02:00.456 JF: No, I do, I include you in that,[br]because listen, you know -- 0:02:00.480,0:02:03.656 it's nice to have somebody still around[br]to play with and learn from 0:02:03.680,0:02:05.576 when you're getting toward the end. 0:02:05.600,0:02:07.896 I'm approaching --[br]I'll be there sooner than you. 0:02:07.920,0:02:10.616 LT: No, I'm glad to have you[br]parallel aging alongside me. 0:02:10.639,0:02:12.696 (Laughter) 0:02:12.720,0:02:14.216 JF: I'm showing you the way. 0:02:14.240,0:02:15.456 (Laughter) 0:02:15.480,0:02:17.376 LT: Well, you are and you have. 0:02:17.400,0:02:18.736 PM: Well, as we grow older, 0:02:18.760,0:02:21.616 and as we go through[br]different kinds of life's journeys, 0:02:21.640,0:02:25.160 what do you do to keep[br]your friendships vital and alive? 0:02:26.120,0:02:27.856 LT: Well you have to use a lot of -- 0:02:27.880,0:02:30.536 JF: She doesn't invite me over much,[br]I'll tell you that. 0:02:30.560,0:02:32.576 LT: I have to use a lot of social media -- 0:02:32.600,0:02:34.096 You be quiet now. And so -- 0:02:34.120,0:02:36.416 (Laughter) 0:02:36.440,0:02:39.456 LT: And I look through my emails,[br]I look through my texts 0:02:39.480,0:02:40.696 to find my friends, 0:02:40.720,0:02:42.816 so I can answer them[br]as quickly as possible, 0:02:42.840,0:02:45.256 because I know they need my counsel. 0:02:45.280,0:02:48.056 (Laughter) 0:02:48.080,0:02:49.336 They need my support, 0:02:49.360,0:02:52.456 because most of my friends[br]are writers, or activists, or actors, 0:02:52.480,0:02:53.776 and you're all three ... 0:02:53.800,0:02:57.416 and a long string[br]of other descriptive phrases, 0:02:57.440,0:03:01.736 and I want to get to you[br]as soon as possible, 0:03:01.760,0:03:03.816 I want you to know that I'm there for you. 0:03:03.840,0:03:05.136 JF: Do you do emojis? 0:03:05.160,0:03:07.056 LT: Oh ...[br]JF: No? 0:03:07.080,0:03:09.536 LT: That's embarrassing.[br]JF: I'm really into emojis. 0:03:09.560,0:03:10.976 LT: No, I spell out my -- 0:03:11.000,0:03:15.776 I spell out my words of happiness[br]and congratulations, 0:03:15.800,0:03:17.456 and sadness. 0:03:17.480,0:03:18.896 JF: You spell it right out -- 0:03:18.920,0:03:20.301 LT: I spell it, every letter. 0:03:20.325,0:03:21.896 (Laughter) 0:03:21.920,0:03:23.096 JF: Such a purist. 0:03:23.120,0:03:25.056 You know, as I've gotten older, 0:03:25.080,0:03:28.296 I've understood more[br]the importance of friendships, 0:03:28.320,0:03:30.176 and so, I really make an effort 0:03:30.200,0:03:34.816 to reach out and make play dates --[br]not let too much time go by. 0:03:34.840,0:03:36.056 I read a lot 0:03:36.080,0:03:38.016 so, as Lily knows all too well, 0:03:38.040,0:03:40.096 my books that I like,[br]I send to my friends. 0:03:40.120,0:03:42.056 LT: When we knew we would be here today 0:03:42.080,0:03:44.896 you sent me a lot of books[br]about women, female friendships, 0:03:44.920,0:03:48.456 and I was so surprised[br]to see how many books, 0:03:48.480,0:03:50.816 how much research[br]has been done recently -- 0:03:50.840,0:03:53.336 JF: And were you grateful?[br]LT: I was grateful. 0:03:53.360,0:03:57.640 (Laughter) 0:03:58.400,0:03:59.616 PM: And -- 0:03:59.640,0:04:02.816 LT: Wait, no, it's really important[br]because this is another example 0:04:02.840,0:04:06.216 of how women are overlooked,[br]put aside, marginalized. 0:04:06.240,0:04:09.016 There's been very little[br]research done on us, 0:04:09.040,0:04:11.016 even though we volunteered lots of times. 0:04:11.040,0:04:12.296 JF: That's for sure. 0:04:12.320,0:04:14.936 (Laughter) 0:04:14.960,0:04:18.176 LT: This is really exciting,[br]and you all will be interested in this. 0:04:18.200,0:04:20.896 The Harvard Medical School study has shown 0:04:20.920,0:04:25.136 that women who have[br]close female friendships 0:04:25.160,0:04:28.776 are less likely to develop impairments -- 0:04:28.800,0:04:30.936 physical impairments as they age, 0:04:30.960,0:04:36.456 and they are likely to be seen[br]to be living much more vital, exciting -- 0:04:36.480,0:04:37.696 JF: And longer -- 0:04:37.720,0:04:38.936 LT: Joyful lives. 0:04:38.960,0:04:40.856 JF: We live five years longer than men. 0:04:40.880,0:04:42.936 LT: I think I'd trade the years for joy. 0:04:42.960,0:04:45.640 (Laughter) 0:04:46.720,0:04:48.976 LT: But the most important[br]part is they found -- 0:04:49.000,0:04:52.856 the results were so exciting[br]and so conclusive -- 0:04:52.880,0:04:54.776 the researchers found 0:04:54.800,0:05:00.536 that not having close female friends[br]is detrimental to your health, 0:05:00.560,0:05:03.536 as much as smoking or being overweight. 0:05:03.560,0:05:05.416 JF: And there's something else, too -- 0:05:05.440,0:05:06.856 LT: I've said my part, so ... 0:05:06.880,0:05:07.896 (Laughter) 0:05:07.920,0:05:11.576 JF: OK, well, listen to my part,[br]because there's an additional thing. 0:05:11.600,0:05:13.776 Because they only --[br]for years, decades -- 0:05:13.800,0:05:18.056 they only researched men when they[br]were trying to understand stress, 0:05:18.080,0:05:22.576 only very recently have they researched[br]what happens to women when we're stressed, 0:05:22.600,0:05:26.936 and it turns out[br]that when we're stressed -- women, 0:05:26.960,0:05:30.176 our bodies get flooded by oxytocin. 0:05:30.200,0:05:33.696 Which is a feel-good, calming,[br]stress-reducing hormone. 0:05:33.720,0:05:38.776 Which is also increased[br]when we're with our women friends. 0:05:38.800,0:05:42.176 And I do think that's one reason[br]why we live longer. 0:05:42.200,0:05:44.816 And I feel so bad for men[br]because they don't have that. 0:05:44.840,0:05:49.056 Testosterone in men[br]diminishes the effects of oxytocin. 0:05:49.080,0:05:52.296 LT: Well, when you and I[br]and Dolly made "9 to 5" ... 0:05:52.320,0:05:53.536 JF: Oh -- 0:05:53.560,0:05:55.616 LT: We laughed, we did,[br]we laughed so much, 0:05:55.640,0:05:58.336 we found we had so much in common[br]and we're so different. 0:05:58.360,0:06:00.075 Here she is, like Hollywood royalty, 0:06:00.099,0:06:02.176 I'm like a tough kid from Detroit, 0:06:02.200,0:06:06.896 [Dolly's] a Southern kid[br]from a poor town in Tennessee, 0:06:06.920,0:06:10.336 and we found we were so in sync as women, 0:06:10.360,0:06:11.576 and we must have -- 0:06:11.600,0:06:17.736 we laughed -- we must have added[br]at least a decade onto our lifespans. 0:06:17.760,0:06:20.536 JF: I think -- we sure[br]crossed our legs a lot. 0:06:20.560,0:06:22.536 (Laughter) 0:06:22.560,0:06:25.176 If you know what I mean. 0:06:25.200,0:06:27.376 LT: I think we all know what you mean. 0:06:27.400,0:06:29.416 (Laughter) 0:06:29.440,0:06:32.136 PM: You're adding decades[br]to our lives right now. 0:06:32.160,0:06:37.096 So among the books that Jane[br]sent us both to read on female friendship 0:06:37.120,0:06:40.976 was one by a woman we admire greatly,[br]Sister Joan Chittister, 0:06:41.000,0:06:43.096 who said about female friendship 0:06:43.120,0:06:47.376 that women friends[br]are not just a social act, 0:06:47.400,0:06:49.296 they're a spiritual act. 0:06:49.320,0:06:51.536 Do you think of your friends as spiritual? 0:06:51.560,0:06:53.976 Do they add something[br]spiritual to your lives? 0:06:54.000,0:06:58.016 LT: Spiritual -- I absolutely think that. 0:06:58.040,0:07:01.096 Because -- especially people[br]you've known a long time, 0:07:01.120,0:07:02.696 people you've spent time with -- 0:07:02.720,0:07:05.776 I can see the spiritual[br]essence inside them, 0:07:05.800,0:07:08.720 the tenderness, the vulnerability. 0:07:10.440,0:07:14.616 There's actually kind of a love,[br]an element of love in the relationship. 0:07:14.640,0:07:18.296 I just see deeply into your soul. 0:07:18.320,0:07:19.776 PM: Do you think that, Jane -- 0:07:19.800,0:07:21.360 LT: But I have special powers. 0:07:22.120,0:07:24.016 JF: Well, there's all kinds of friends. 0:07:24.040,0:07:26.576 There's business friends,[br]and party friends, 0:07:26.600,0:07:28.016 I've got a lot of those. 0:07:28.040,0:07:30.016 (Laughter) 0:07:30.040,0:07:33.920 But the oxytocin-producing[br]friendships have ... 0:07:35.320,0:07:39.816 They feel spiritual[br]because it's a heart opening, right? 0:07:39.840,0:07:41.560 You know, we go deep. And -- 0:07:42.840,0:07:47.840 I find that I shed tears a lot[br]with my intimate friends. 0:07:49.040,0:07:54.336 Not because I'm sad but because[br]I'm so touched and inspired by them. 0:07:54.360,0:07:56.640 LT: And you know one of you[br]is going to go soon. 0:07:57.120,0:08:00.280 (Laughter) 0:08:02.520,0:08:06.976 PM: Well, two of us are sitting here,[br]Lily, which one are you talking about? 0:08:07.000,0:08:08.376 (Laughter) 0:08:08.400,0:08:11.216 And I always think, when women[br]talk about their friendships, 0:08:11.240,0:08:14.496 that men always look a little mystified. 0:08:14.520,0:08:17.056 What are the differences, in your opinion, 0:08:17.080,0:08:20.056 between men friendships[br]and women friendships? 0:08:20.080,0:08:22.056 JF: There's a lot of difference, 0:08:22.080,0:08:25.016 and I think we have to have[br]a lot of empathy for men -- 0:08:25.040,0:08:26.736 (Laughter) 0:08:26.760,0:08:30.480 that they don't have what we have. 0:08:31.040,0:08:33.576 Which I think may be why they die sooner. 0:08:33.600,0:08:35.135 (Laughter) 0:08:35.159,0:08:37.856 I have a lot of compassion for men, 0:08:37.880,0:08:41.496 because women, no kidding, we -- 0:08:41.520,0:08:47.136 women's relationships, our friendships[br]are full disclosure, we go deep. 0:08:47.160,0:08:48.600 They're revelatory. 0:08:49.760,0:08:54.096 We risk vulnerability --[br]this is something men don't do. 0:08:54.120,0:08:57.656 I mean how many times[br]have I asked you, "Am I doing OK?" 0:08:57.680,0:08:59.936 "Did I really screw up there?" 0:08:59.960,0:09:01.336 PM: You're doing great. 0:09:01.360,0:09:02.456 (Laughter) 0:09:02.480,0:09:05.616 JF: But I mean, we ask questions like that 0:09:05.640,0:09:06.856 of our women friends, 0:09:06.880,0:09:08.896 and men don't. 0:09:08.920,0:09:12.816 You know, people describe women's[br]relationships as face-to-face, 0:09:12.840,0:09:15.856 whereas men's friendships[br]are more side-by-side. 0:09:15.880,0:09:19.616 LT: I mean most of the time[br]men don't want to reveal their emotions, 0:09:19.640,0:09:21.336 they want to bury deeper feelings. 0:09:21.360,0:09:24.376 I mean, that's the general,[br]conventional thought. 0:09:24.400,0:09:28.936 They would rather go off in their man cave[br]and watch a game or hit golf balls, 0:09:28.960,0:09:33.576 or talk about sports,[br]or hunting, or cars or have sex. 0:09:33.600,0:09:36.856 I mean, it's just the kind of --[br]it's a more manly behavior. 0:09:36.880,0:09:39.176 JF: You meant --[br]LT: They talk about sex. 0:09:39.200,0:09:40.896 I meant they might have sex 0:09:40.920,0:09:43.296 if they could get somebody[br]in their man cave to -- 0:09:43.320,0:09:45.080 (Laughter) 0:09:46.360,0:09:49.576 JF: You know something, though,[br]that I find very interesting -- 0:09:49.600,0:09:54.176 and again, psychologists didn't know this[br]until relatively recently -- 0:09:54.200,0:09:57.936 is that men are born every bit[br]as relational as women are. 0:09:57.960,0:10:01.576 If you look at films[br]of newborn baby boys and girls, 0:10:01.600,0:10:03.696 you'll see the baby boys[br]just like the girls, 0:10:03.720,0:10:06.056 gazing into their mother's eyes, 0:10:06.080,0:10:10.256 you know, needing that relational[br]exchange of energy. 0:10:10.280,0:10:15.576 When the mother looks away,[br]they could see the dismay on the child, 0:10:15.600,0:10:16.856 even the boy would cry. 0:10:16.880,0:10:18.736 They need relationship. 0:10:18.760,0:10:22.736 So the question is why,[br]as they grow older, does that change? 0:10:22.760,0:10:25.096 And the answer is patriarchal culture, 0:10:25.120,0:10:28.096 which says to boys and young men 0:10:28.120,0:10:33.376 that to be needing of relationship,[br]to be emotional with someone is girly. 0:10:33.400,0:10:39.056 That a real man doesn't ask[br]directions or express a need, 0:10:39.080,0:10:41.376 they don't go to doctors if they feel bad. 0:10:41.400,0:10:42.976 They don't ask for help. 0:10:43.000,0:10:44.696 There's a quote that I really like, 0:10:44.720,0:10:49.456 "Men fear that becoming 'we'[br]will erase his 'I'." 0:10:49.480,0:10:51.176 You know, his sense of self. 0:10:51.200,0:10:55.696 Whereas women's sense of self[br]has always been kind of porous. 0:10:55.720,0:10:59.536 But our "we" is our saving grace, 0:10:59.560,0:11:02.016 it's what makes us strong. 0:11:02.040,0:11:03.776 It's not that we're better than men, 0:11:03.800,0:11:05.848 we just don't have[br]our masculinity to prove. 0:11:06.440,0:11:07.656 LT: And, well -- 0:11:07.680,0:11:09.336 JF: That's a Gloria Steinem quote. 0:11:09.360,0:11:12.736 So we can express our humanity --[br]LT: I know who Gloria Steinem is. 0:11:12.760,0:11:15.237 JF: I know you know who she is,[br]but I think it's a -- 0:11:15.261,0:11:17.296 (Laughter) 0:11:17.320,0:11:19.176 No, but it's a great quote, I think. 0:11:19.200,0:11:23.456 We're not better than men, we just[br]don't have our masculinity to prove. 0:11:23.480,0:11:24.856 And that's really important. 0:11:24.880,0:11:27.456 LT: But men are[br]so inculcated in the culture 0:11:27.480,0:11:30.616 to be comfortable in the patriarchy. 0:11:30.640,0:11:33.576 And we've got to make[br]something different happen. 0:11:33.600,0:11:37.776 JF: Women's friendships[br]are like a renewable source of power. 0:11:37.800,0:11:40.256 LT: Well, that's what's exciting[br]about this subject. 0:11:40.280,0:11:41.816 It's because our friendships -- 0:11:41.840,0:11:46.456 female friendships[br]are just a hop to our sisterhood, 0:11:46.480,0:11:49.896 and sisterhood can be[br]a very powerful force, 0:11:49.920,0:11:51.336 to give the world -- 0:11:51.360,0:11:53.176 to make it what it should be -- 0:11:53.200,0:11:56.120 the things that humans desperately need. 0:11:56.840,0:11:58.656 PM: It is why we're talking about it, 0:11:58.680,0:12:00.376 because women's friendships are, 0:12:00.400,0:12:01.616 as you said, Jane, 0:12:01.640,0:12:02.976 a renewable source of power. 0:12:03.000,0:12:04.480 So how do we use that power? 0:12:05.760,0:12:09.136 JF: Well, women are the fastest growing[br]demographic in the world, 0:12:09.160,0:12:10.376 especially older women. 0:12:10.400,0:12:14.456 And if we harness our power,[br]we can change the world. 0:12:14.480,0:12:16.016 And guess what? We need to. 0:12:16.040,0:12:18.176 (Applause) 0:12:18.200,0:12:19.496 And we need to do it soon. 0:12:19.520,0:12:22.016 And one of the things[br]that we need to do -- 0:12:22.040,0:12:23.576 and we can do it as women -- 0:12:23.600,0:12:26.696 for one thing, we kind of set[br]the consumer standards. 0:12:26.720,0:12:29.136 We need to consume less. 0:12:29.160,0:12:32.136 We in the Western world[br]need to consume less 0:12:32.160,0:12:35.376 and when we buy things, we need to[br]buy things that are made locally, 0:12:35.400,0:12:38.496 when we buy food, we need to buy food[br]that's grown locally. 0:12:38.520,0:12:41.736 We are the ones[br]that need to get off the grid. 0:12:41.760,0:12:47.496 We need to make ourselves[br]independent from fossil fuels. 0:12:47.520,0:12:49.496 And the fossil fuel companies -- 0:12:49.520,0:12:52.656 the Exxons and the Shell Oils[br]and those bad guys -- 0:12:52.680,0:12:53.896 cause they are -- 0:12:53.920,0:12:57.776 are going to tell us that we can't do it[br]without going back to the Stone Age. 0:12:57.800,0:13:00.656 You know, that the alternatives[br]just aren't quite there yet, 0:13:00.680,0:13:02.016 and that's not true. 0:13:02.040,0:13:04.096 There are countries in the world right now 0:13:04.120,0:13:07.456 that are living mostly on renewable[br]energy and doing just fine. 0:13:07.480,0:13:11.616 And they tell us that if we do[br]wean ourselves from fossil fuel 0:13:11.640,0:13:13.776 that we're going to be[br]back in the Stone Age, 0:13:13.800,0:13:17.976 and in fact, if we begin[br]to use renewable energy, 0:13:18.000,0:13:20.166 and not drill in the Arctic,[br]and not drill -- 0:13:20.190,0:13:21.356 LT: Oh, boy. 0:13:21.380,0:13:23.496 JF: And not drill[br]in the Alberta tar sands -- 0:13:23.520,0:13:24.736 Right. 0:13:24.760,0:13:26.000 That we will be -- 0:13:26.040,0:13:29.416 there will be more democracy[br]and more jobs and more well-being, 0:13:29.440,0:13:31.656 and it's women that are[br]going to lead the way. 0:13:31.680,0:13:36.056 LT: Maybe we have the momentum[br]to start a third-wave feminist movement 0:13:36.080,0:13:38.656 with our sisterhood around the world, 0:13:38.680,0:13:41.856 with women we don't see,[br]women we may never meet, 0:13:41.880,0:13:44.376 but we join together that way, 0:13:44.400,0:13:45.616 because -- 0:13:45.640,0:13:46.840 Aristotle said -- 0:13:47.920,0:13:49.136 most people -- 0:13:49.160,0:13:52.056 people would die without male friendships. 0:13:52.080,0:13:55.336 And the operative word here was "male." 0:13:55.360,0:13:58.296 Because they thought that friendships[br]should be between equals 0:13:58.320,0:14:00.536 and women were not considered equal -- 0:14:00.560,0:14:03.016 JF: They didn't think[br]we had souls even, the Greeks. 0:14:03.040,0:14:06.896 LT: No, exactly. That shows you[br]just how limited Aristotle was. 0:14:06.920,0:14:08.600 (Laughter) 0:14:09.520,0:14:11.416 And wait, no, here's the best part. 0:14:11.440,0:14:15.056 It's like, you know,[br]men do need women now. 0:14:15.080,0:14:17.216 The planet needs women. 0:14:17.240,0:14:19.696 The US Constitution needs women. 0:14:19.720,0:14:22.496 We are not even in the Constitution. 0:14:22.520,0:14:24.976 JF: You're talking about[br]the Equal Rights Amendment. 0:14:25.000,0:14:26.158 LT: Right. 0:14:26.182,0:14:30.080 Justice Ginsberg said something like -- 0:14:31.920,0:14:35.496 every constitution that's been written[br]since the end of World War II 0:14:35.520,0:14:40.496 included a provision that made women[br]citizens of equal stature, 0:14:40.520,0:14:42.216 but ours does not. 0:14:42.240,0:14:44.136 So that would be a good place to start. 0:14:44.160,0:14:46.216 Very, very mild -- 0:14:46.240,0:14:47.456 JF: Right. 0:14:47.480,0:14:48.680 (Applause) 0:14:50.200,0:14:52.856 And gender equality, it's like a tide, 0:14:52.880,0:14:54.816 it would lift all boats, not just women. 0:14:54.840,0:14:57.376 PM: Needing new role models[br]on how to do that. 0:14:57.400,0:14:58.816 How to be friends, 0:14:58.840,0:15:01.736 how to think about our power[br]in different ways, 0:15:01.760,0:15:02.976 as consumers, 0:15:03.000,0:15:04.656 as citizens of the world, 0:15:04.680,0:15:07.096 and this is what makes Jane and Lily 0:15:07.120,0:15:09.856 a role model of how[br]women can be friends -- 0:15:09.880,0:15:11.496 for a very long time, 0:15:11.520,0:15:13.936 and even if they occasionally disagree. 0:15:13.960,0:15:15.160 Thank you. 0:15:16.360,0:15:17.576 Thank you both. 0:15:17.600,0:15:18.816 (Applause) 0:15:18.840,0:15:20.040 JF: Thanks. 0:15:23.560,0:15:24.776 LT: Thank you. 0:15:24.800,0:15:26.000 JF: Thank you. 0:15:26.053,0:15:31.120 (Applause)