[Script Info] Title: [Events] Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text Dialogue: 0,0:00:00.51,0:00:02.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So when was the last time that you wrote Dialogue: 0,0:00:02.36,0:00:03.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a handwritten note? Dialogue: 0,0:00:03.51,0:00:04.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's probably been a while. Dialogue: 0,0:00:04.59,0:00:07.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(playful piano music) Dialogue: 0,0:00:08.92,0:00:11.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Technology has changed\Nthe way we communicate. Dialogue: 0,0:00:11.15,0:00:12.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We send emails, not letters, Dialogue: 0,0:00:12.80,0:00:14.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,text messages, not phone calls. Dialogue: 0,0:00:14.66,0:00:17.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We order delivery instead of\Ncooking dinners in our kitchen. Dialogue: 0,0:00:17.41,0:00:19.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All in the name of efficiency. Dialogue: 0,0:00:19.18,0:00:20.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But here's the point. Dialogue: 0,0:00:20.28,0:00:22.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Technology has made it\Neasier to communicate. Dialogue: 0,0:00:22.73,0:00:24.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But it hasn't made it easier to connect Dialogue: 0,0:00:24.95,0:00:26.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with other human beings. Dialogue: 0,0:00:26.27,0:00:28.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've found that the secret to connecting Dialogue: 0,0:00:28.33,0:00:31.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the high-tech, fast\Npaced world that we live in, Dialogue: 0,0:00:31.29,0:00:34.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is doing a few small things,\Nthe old-fashioned way. Dialogue: 0,0:00:34.82,0:00:35.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Write a letter. Dialogue: 0,0:00:35.86,0:00:38.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've written thousands\Nof handwritten notes. Dialogue: 0,0:00:38.48,0:00:39.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thanking people for advice, Dialogue: 0,0:00:39.78,0:00:41.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,thanking them for an interview. Dialogue: 0,0:00:41.26,0:00:42.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It just puts that extra effort Dialogue: 0,0:00:42.89,0:00:44.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to show to someone that you really care Dialogue: 0,0:00:44.54,0:00:46.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and that you're willing\Nto go above and beyond. Dialogue: 0,0:00:46.44,0:00:48.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Some advice for writing a thank you letter Dialogue: 0,0:00:48.57,0:00:49.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is to really make it clear Dialogue: 0,0:00:49.86,0:00:51.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to the person that you're writing to. Dialogue: 0,0:00:51.46,0:00:53.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The impact that they\Nhave had on your life. Dialogue: 0,0:00:53.51,0:00:55.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Talk about something specific. Dialogue: 0,0:00:55.15,0:00:57.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Like "Thank you for the\Nadvice that you gave me. Dialogue: 0,0:00:57.40,0:00:59.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"It's because of the advice you gave me, Dialogue: 0,0:00:59.60,0:01:02.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"that I am now doing x." Dialogue: 0,0:01:02.17,0:01:04.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,People are looking to make a difference. Dialogue: 0,0:01:04.10,0:01:05.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And so if you can show someone, Dialogue: 0,0:01:05.83,0:01:07.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that they've really had a impact Dialogue: 0,0:01:07.15,0:01:09.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on the life that you're living,\Nthe life you're pursuing, Dialogue: 0,0:01:09.95,0:01:11.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it could have a huge impact. Dialogue: 0,0:01:11.21,0:01:12.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Pick up the phone and dial. Dialogue: 0,0:01:12.74,0:01:14.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We've hired thousands of employees. Dialogue: 0,0:01:14.81,0:01:17.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I've personally called\Nevery single one of them Dialogue: 0,0:01:17.51,0:01:19.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to welcome them to the Compass family. Dialogue: 0,0:01:19.12,0:01:20.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm able to set the tone Dialogue: 0,0:01:20.30,0:01:22.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of really what I want the company to be. Dialogue: 0,0:01:22.88,0:01:24.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Where, you know, people\Ngo above and beyond Dialogue: 0,0:01:24.92,0:01:26.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to make people feel welcomed Dialogue: 0,0:01:26.70,0:01:28.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and to give people a sense of belonging. Dialogue: 0,0:01:28.19,0:01:30.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And sometimes I call people\Non their last day of work. Dialogue: 0,0:01:30.57,0:01:33.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When people leave, sometimes\Nthey're more transparent Dialogue: 0,0:01:33.25,0:01:34.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,than they ever were\Nwhen they were actually Dialogue: 0,0:01:34.99,0:01:35.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,still at the company. Dialogue: 0,0:01:35.89,0:01:37.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And so it's a great opportunity\Nto get the kinda feedback Dialogue: 0,0:01:37.91,0:01:39.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that is very hard to get otherwise. Dialogue: 0,0:01:39.67,0:01:41.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ask interesting and meaningful questions Dialogue: 0,0:01:41.78,0:01:43.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when you get outside of the office. Dialogue: 0,0:01:43.33,0:01:45.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When I'm traveling the\Ncountry, every single night, Dialogue: 0,0:01:45.91,0:01:47.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'll have a dinner with\Npeople in the company. Dialogue: 0,0:01:47.93,0:01:48.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I like to ask questions like Dialogue: 0,0:01:48.100,0:01:50.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What's your underlying motivation? Dialogue: 0,0:01:50.46,0:01:52.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What's something that's\Nhappened this week Dialogue: 0,0:01:52.34,0:01:53.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"that meant a lot to you?" Dialogue: 0,0:01:53.61,0:01:55.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And when you go around the table, Dialogue: 0,0:01:55.58,0:01:58.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and people really open up and\Npeople are able to engage, Dialogue: 0,0:01:58.32,0:01:59.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it sets a different tone. Dialogue: 0,0:01:59.98,0:02:01.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When people come back to the office, Dialogue: 0,0:02:01.72,0:02:03.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they can see each other\Nand they know each other Dialogue: 0,0:02:03.45,0:02:04.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in a deeper way. Dialogue: 0,0:02:04.28,0:02:06.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Answer questions with honesty. Dialogue: 0,0:02:06.49,0:02:08.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know how it feels when\Nyou go into an elevator Dialogue: 0,0:02:08.36,0:02:09.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and someone says "How was your weekend?" Dialogue: 0,0:02:09.72,0:02:11.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It could've been, like\Nthe best weekend ever, Dialogue: 0,0:02:11.77,0:02:13.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you could've met the love of your life, Dialogue: 0,0:02:13.08,0:02:14.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the person you wanna\Nmarry and you would say Dialogue: 0,0:02:14.90,0:02:16.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Good, how was yours?" Dialogue: 0,0:02:16.66,0:02:19.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you wanna connect with\Npeople, then you have to open up. Dialogue: 0,0:02:19.33,0:02:20.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm not always that good at it Dialogue: 0,0:02:20.63,0:02:22.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I imagine most people aren't. Dialogue: 0,0:02:22.59,0:02:25.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But that's why being\Nopen stands out so much Dialogue: 0,0:02:25.28,0:02:26.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because most people aren't. Dialogue: 0,0:02:26.53,0:02:27.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Turn the video on. Dialogue: 0,0:02:27.62,0:02:30.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I would always recommend\Na video conference Dialogue: 0,0:02:30.31,0:02:31.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,over a phone call. Dialogue: 0,0:02:31.14,0:02:33.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'Cause that's when you can\Nsee the real personality Dialogue: 0,0:02:33.10,0:02:33.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,come out. Dialogue: 0,0:02:33.93,0:02:35.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When you're on video,\Nyou're forced to be present. Dialogue: 0,0:02:35.87,0:02:39.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's almost a forcing\Nmechanism to be in the moment. Dialogue: 0,0:02:39.01,0:02:40.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nobody succeeds alone. Dialogue: 0,0:02:40.36,0:02:41.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The more you can take time Dialogue: 0,0:02:41.67,0:02:43.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to develop genuine\Nauthentic relationships, Dialogue: 0,0:02:44.78,0:02:46.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the more you're gonna be\Nable to realize your dreams. Dialogue: 0,0:02:46.98,0:02:49.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because you're gonna be\Nable to take big risks Dialogue: 0,0:02:49.49,0:02:51.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and know that there's gonna be\Na network of people out there Dialogue: 0,0:02:51.45,0:02:53.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to cheer you on and to\Nsupport your efforts. Dialogue: 0,0:02:53.64,0:02:56.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(playful piano music)