1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:02,933 How can I know when I've forgiven someone? 2 00:00:02,933 --> 00:00:11,233 When you can remember the pain without reliving the pain in the present. 3 00:00:11,233 --> 00:00:20,400 When the memory of the past provokes gratitude to God, not grievance to man. 4 00:00:20,400 --> 00:00:23,600 ‘Look at what God has seen me through.’ 5 00:00:23,600 --> 00:00:27,400 Not ‘look at what he has put me through.’