WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:02.933 How can I know when I've forgiven someone? 00:00:02.933 --> 00:00:11.233 When you can remember the pain without reliving the pain in the present. 00:00:11.233 --> 00:00:20.400 When the memory of the past provokes gratitude to God, not grievance to man. 00:00:20.400 --> 00:00:23.600 ‘Look at what God has seen me through.’ 00:00:23.600 --> 00:00:27.400 Not ‘look at what he has put me through.’