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Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So when you think about a child,\Na close friend, or a romantic partner,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the word "love" probably comes to mind,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and instantly other emotions rush in:
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,joy and hope,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,excitement, trust and security,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and yes, sometimes\Nsadness and disappointment.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There might not be\Na word in the dictionary
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that more of us\Nare connected to than love.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yet, given its central\Nimportance in our lives,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,isn't it interesting that we're never\Nexplicitly taught how to love?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We build friendships,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,navigate early romantic relationships,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,get married and bring babies\Nhome from the hospital
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with the expectation\Nthat we'll figure it out.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But the truth is, we often harm\Nand disrespect the ones we love.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It can be subtle things\Nlike guilting a friend
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,into spending time with you
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or sneaking a peak\Nat your partner's texts
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or shaming a child\Nfor their lack of effort at school.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,100 percent of us will be\Non the receiving end
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of unhealthy relationship behaviors,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and 100 percent of us\Nwill do unhealthy things.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's part of being human.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In its worst form, the harm\Nwe inflict on loved ones
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,shows up as abuse and violence,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and relationship abuse
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is something that one in three women\Nand one in four men
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,will experience in their lifetime.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now, if you're like most people,\Nwhen you hear those stats,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you'll go, oh, no no no,\Nthat would never happen to me.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's instinctual to move away\Nfrom the words "abuse" and "violence,"
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to think that they happen\Nto someone else somewhere else.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But the truth is, unhealthy relationships\Nand abuse are all around us.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We just call them different things\Nand ignore the connection.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Abuse sneaks up on us\Ndisguised in unhealthy love.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I work for an organization called One Love
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,started by a family whose daughter\NYeardley was killed by her ex-boyfriend.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This was a tragedy no one saw coming,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but when they looked back,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they realized the warning signs were there
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,just no one understood\Nwhat they were seeing.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Called crazy or drama\Nor too much drinking,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,his actions weren't understood\Nto be what they really were,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which was clear signs of danger.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Her family realized that if anyone\Nhad been educated about these signs,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,her death could have been prevented.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So today we're on a mission\Nto make sure that others
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,have the information\Nthat Yeardley and her friends didn't.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We have three main goals:
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,give all of us a language\Nfor talking about a subject
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that's quite awkward\Nand uncomfortable to discuss;
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,empower a whole frontline,\Nnamely friends, to help;
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and, in the process, improve\Nall of our ability to love better.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To do this, it's always important\Nto start by illuminating
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the unhealthy signs\Nthat we frequently miss,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and our work really focuses\Non creating content
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to start conversations with young people.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As you'd expect, most of our content is\Npretty serious, given the subject at hand,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but today I'm going to use\None of our more light-hearted
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,yet still thought-provoking pieces,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the Couplets,