[Script Info] Title: [Events] Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text Dialogue: 0,0:00:14.18,0:00:15.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Good evening, Good evening\NHow are you Dialogue: 0,0:00:15.17,0:00:15.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Are you good? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Great, welcome welcome \Nwelcome to this match Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,this match will take exactly 18 minutes. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And you all part of the same team Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Hey guys, I would like to see fair play\Non the field, respect, and positivity. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Is that ok for everyone? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Cool. Good luck. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,One year ago, I decided I want to become \Na football referee, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,um, it's not because of the money though \NI only get paid 20 euros per match. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, I won't really get rich by it rely. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now, I decided to become a referee \Nfor 2 other reasons. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,One, do things go cheap?\NTwo, because I wanted to learn Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How not to take things personally? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can see some people nodding, \Nyou're probably thinking being a referee Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is a perfect environment to learn \Nhow not to take things personally? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Isn't it? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because, expectators hardly ever shouted encouraging or positive things. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No. \NWhat do they shout? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Come on, come on. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Loser, Are you blind?]\NYeah, good good. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As a referee, I am discabed goat. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Apparently, I'm always wrong.\NIt's always my fault. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I wanted to learn \Nhow not to take all of this personally. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because I really struggle with this. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For example, when I drive slowly\Nbecause I'm trying to find this specific location. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And somebody is just driving behind me,\NI feel hunted, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,especially when they start honking, \Nand flashing their headlines. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Sigh] Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I take personally.\NI know, I shouldn't. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But it just happens, do you see what I mean? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or when somebody cancels \Nan appointment last minute Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I get the feeling that \NI'm not important enough. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Again, I take it personally. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Even professionally. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm a public speaker like tonight,\Nthis is what I do, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I give keynotes speeches \Nand I really like it Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as long as I can draw my audience into my story Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because the very, the very moment I see somebody is not paying attention