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the other question i want to address is

this thing about

um you know like

hanging out with people that are not

really into sikhi is that okay or not

i think we have to be clear to our kids

those that are into sikhi

we need to sort of tell our kids that

there are other people

that are not following sikhi properly

but they're also sick

so you have to explain to them that

there's people that are not

khalsa but they just six anyway

so we tell our kids that there's cars

are six and there's none called sussex

so there's like people who cut their

beard or these people that drink

people that you know eat meat or other

things but they're not really

they're not following the car somewhere

but they are still sick otherwise you

know they can go either like oh they're

fake seeks

like you know they don't realize so

they'll just make up a word and say oh

there's a fake sick over there

and you're like no no he's not a fake

he's a sick but he's just not cast

and then obviously with your kids just

make them clear

that we follow the sikhi line or we

follow the khalsa way

and these people they follow the

non-khalsawi and it's okay

you can they could they like say so i

mean

it's a big word for a young kid you know

you can just say like non khan

says um

but that doesn't mean that you tell them

oh we can

they're not the same if you say all

sikhs are the same

if you say all religion the same they'll

get confused if you say everybody's the

same

then they'll say well why should i be

different then why do i have to keep my

case

this person have to keep the keys so you

do have to tell them

that the kaasawa is the guru's preferred

way

the guru wants khalsa children guru

gave up his four sons but he still

accepted everybody else as his children

so it's not that you you reduce the

status of the call-serving

you still say this is the best way of

following sikhi but

other people don't we don't criticize

them

but we understand this is the best way

to follow

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