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the other question i want to address is

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this thing about

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um you know like

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hanging out with people that are not

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really into sikhi is that okay or not

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i think we have to be clear to our kids

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those that are into sikhi

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we need to sort of tell our kids that

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there are other people

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that are not following sikhi properly

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but they're also sick

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so you have to explain to them that

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there's people that are not

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khalsa but they just six anyway

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so we tell our kids that there's cars

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are six and there's none called sussex

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so there's like people who cut their

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beard or these people that drink

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people that you know eat meat or other

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things but they're not really

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they're not following the car somewhere

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but they are still sick otherwise you

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know they can go either like oh they're

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fake seeks

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like you know they don't realize so

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they'll just make up a word and say oh

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there's a fake sick over there

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and you're like no no he's not a fake

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he's a sick but he's just not cast

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and then obviously with your kids just

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make them clear

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that we follow the sikhi line or we

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follow the khalsa way

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and these people they follow the

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non-khalsawi and it's okay

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you can they could they like say so i

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mean

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it's a big word for a young kid you know

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you can just say like non khan

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says um

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but that doesn't mean that you tell them

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oh we can

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they're not the same if you say all

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sikhs are the same

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if you say all religion the same they'll

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get confused if you say everybody's the

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same

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then they'll say well why should i be

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different then why do i have to keep my

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case

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this person have to keep the keys so you

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do have to tell them

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that the kaasawa is the guru's preferred

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way

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the guru wants khalsa children guru

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gave up his four sons but he still

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accepted everybody else as his children

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so it's not that you you reduce the

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status of the call-serving

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you still say this is the best way of

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following sikhi but

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other people don't we don't criticize

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them

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but we understand this is the best way

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to follow

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