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Dialogue: 0,0:00:00.00,0:00:03.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,,Even if you don’t understand \N.you can still always support us
Dialogue: 0,0:00:03.56,0:00:06.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,.Our identity remains valid, and it exists
Dialogue: 0,0:00:08.74,0:00:12.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,.My name is Camille, I'm 22 years old\NI’m non-binary, and I’m here to talk
Dialogue: 0,0:00:12.26,0:00:15.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,.to you about non-binary identities\NNonbinary is an umbrella term that
Dialogue: 0,0:00:15.67,0:00:17.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,includes all gender identities that are
Dialogue: 0,0:00:17.88,0:00:20.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,neither exclusively masculine nor\Nexclusively feminine
Dialogue: 0,0:00:20.58,0:00:23.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,,so it can be agender \Nmeaning a subtraction without
Dialogue: 0,0:00:23.91,0:00:28.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a" gender that is neutral, or it can be"\Nall fluid identities, as if one
Dialogue: 0,0:00:28.88,0:00:30.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,imagined gender as a spectrum with
Dialogue: 0,0:00:30.76,0:00:34.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,two poles, masculine and feminine, with\N.a slider that moves across
Dialogue: 0,0:00:34.54,0:00:39.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, all people who are \N,.genderfluid, demigender, pangender, etc
Dialogue: 0,0:00:39.43,0:00:42.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,.I never really identified with femininity
Dialogue: 0,0:00:42.65,0:00:47.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,At 18, I already started to ask myself \Nquestions about my gender identity
Dialogue: 0,0:00:47.94,0:00:51.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I have met a trans man with whom \NI was with for a while
Dialogue: 0,0:00:51.90,0:00:54.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we were able to \Nput my identity into words
Dialogue: 0,0:00:54.85,0:00:56.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which was therefore non-binary, and
Dialogue: 0,0:00:56.64,0:00:59.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think it's because he had\Nmore information than I did
Dialogue: 0,0:00:59.26,0:01:03.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that he was able to help me find the words\N.regarding my identity
Dialogue: 0,0:01:03.28,0:01:08.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Gender identity is what we are. It's the \Ngender we feel, live, and experiment with
Dialogue: 0,0:01:08.99,0:01:13.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and gender expression is\N.what we show to others
Dialogue: 0,0:01:13.14,0:01:18.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is the way we express that identity\N,So we can have, for example
Dialogue: 0,0:01:18.53,0:01:21.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a gender identity that is masculine\Nso a man and
Dialogue: 0,0:01:21.34,0:01:24.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we could have a feminine gender \Nexpression with
Dialogue: 0,0:01:24.03,0:01:26.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,,lots of markers our \N.society considers feminine
Dialogue: 0,0:01:26.37,0:01:30.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For example, Bilal Hassani, a man \Nwith a feminine gender expression
Dialogue: 0,0:01:31.00,0:01:35.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I announced to my parents that I \Nwas non-binary and that
Dialogue: 0,0:01:35.41,0:01:37.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I wanted to change my name \Nat the same time
Dialogue: 0,0:01:37.88,0:01:40.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was 20 years old, so it was 2 years ago
Dialogue: 0,0:01:41.04,0:01:43.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and uh, my mom took it very well
Dialogue: 0,0:01:43.49,0:01:46.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She was already very aware of the
Dialogue: 0,0:01:46.25,0:01:49.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,gender issues, she was quite\Ndeconstructed and very, very safe
Dialogue: 0,0:01:49.26,0:01:50.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,.I felt secure
Dialogue: 0,0:01:50.96,0:01:53.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My dad, it was\Na little more delicate
Dialogue: 0,0:01:53.09,0:01:56.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It took a bit more time to talk to him \Nabout it, and I didn't
Dialogue: 0,0:01:56.54,0:01:59.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,do it in person, I\Nsent him a message, actually, because
Dialogue: 0,0:01:59.36,0:02:03.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it was easier for me to manage, and he\Nreacted quite well. He said that he
Dialogue: 0,0:02:03.76,0:02:05.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,didn't fully understand \Nbut in any case
Dialogue: 0,0:02:05.81,0:02:08.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he would support me, and \N.it changed nothing for him
Dialogue: 0,0:02:08.36,0:02:09.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he loved \N.me the same
Dialogue: 0,0:02:09.50,0:02:11.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As for my grandmother \Nit was a little less obvious
Dialogue: 0,0:02:11.94,0:02:14.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because it was something \N.very distant for her
Dialogue: 0,0:02:14.61,0:02:17.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She grew up in the countryside\Nthen she moved to Paris, she lived
Dialogue: 0,0:02:17.70,0:02:21.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,.with my grandfather 50 years\NShe lived in contexts that were
Dialogue: 0,0:02:21.38,0:02:22.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,very cis & heteronormative
Dialogue: 0,0:02:22.62,0:02:26.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where she had never questioned\Nher own identity or the identity of others
Dialogue: 0,0:02:26.10,0:02:30.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, when I told her, she\Nwas a bit taken aback, but she always
Dialogue: 0,0:02:30.87,0:02:35.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,looked out and wanted the best for me
Dialogue: 0,0:02:35.03,0:02:38.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She made a lot of effort; she rarely made \N.mistakes with my name now
Dialogue: 0,0:02:38.66,0:02:43.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I made a request for a name change\Nin 2019
Dialogue: 0,0:02:43.05,0:02:47.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I made a request\N.to the city I was living in
Dialogue: 0,0:02:47.77,0:02:52.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I picked up a file that\NI filled out with testimonies from my
Dialogue: 0,0:02:52.14,0:02:55.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,family members to say that they used the\Nname Camille to address me
Dialogue: 0,0:02:56.98,0:03:01.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I asked my school to provide me with a\Nletter of support, etc. Then I
Dialogue: 0,0:03:01.04,0:03:03.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,submitted my application and\NI waited a few months
Dialogue: 0,0:03:03.86,0:03:05.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Actually, it varies \Nby city
Dialogue: 0,0:03:05.21,0:03:07.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but my request for a name \Nchange was accepted
Dialogue: 0,0:03:07.82,0:03:11.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To misgender someone\Nis to speak to them
Dialogue: 0,0:03:11.33,0:03:15.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,,using the wrong pronouns \Nso, gendering a non-binary person who
Dialogue: 0,0:03:15.41,0:03:20.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,explicitly said to use\N"neutral pronouns, like the pronoun "they\N
Dialogue: 0,0:03:20.16,0:03:23.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,.and to gender it, in \Nfeminine or the masculine
Dialogue: 0,0:03:23.55,0:03:28.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Personally, I use feminine pronouns \Nwhen speaking and neutral in writing
Dialogue: 0,0:03:28.88,0:03:32.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it's true that, in general, I have\N.a tendency to say right away
Dialogue: 0,0:03:32.88,0:03:36.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I prefer to be addressed \Nwith feminine pronouns in conversation
Dialogue: 0,0:03:36.46,0:03:38.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,after, if they \Ndon't it on their own
Dialogue: 0,0:03:38.43,0:03:42.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you would prefer to be\N.sure to address the gender correctly
Dialogue: 0,0:03:42.72,0:03:46.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you can ask them their pronouns or\Nwait until they identify their gender in
Dialogue: 0,0:03:46.40,0:03:48.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,front of you to follow \Ntheir gender expression
Dialogue: 0,0:03:48.60,0:03:52.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the videos I've already made \Npreviously, there were many comments
Dialogue: 0,0:03:53.24,0:03:59.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that invalidated our identities, that\Ndenied our gender expressions
Dialogue: 0,0:03:59.07,0:04:04.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and our gender identities. After, I read\Nvery few of those comments because I know
Dialogue: 0,0:04:04.79,0:04:10.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Most of them are malicious or very\N.insensitive and would hurt my feelings
Dialogue: 0,0:04:10.10,0:04:14.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have already participated in\Na report in which we could
Dialogue: 0,0:04:14.12,0:04:17.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,,hear that it was just a trend\N,that it had only appeared a few years ago
Dialogue: 0,0:04:17.67,0:04:21.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the United States 10 years ago, that \N,it was also related to fashion
Dialogue: 0,0:04:21.67,0:04:24.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,.like unisex fashion, etc
Dialogue: 0,0:04:24.44,0:04:28.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's completely false, and I think\Nthat it's also a
Dialogue: 0,0:04:28.69,0:04:32.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,very white and very \NEurocentric point of view
Dialogue: 0,0:04:32.93,0:04:35.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because in many cultures \Naround the world we can find
Dialogue: 0,0:04:35.92,0:04:41.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,several gender identities that were\Ncompletely erased during colonisation
Dialogue: 0,0:04:41.05,0:04:46.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,,We often hear that it's problematic\Nor it's embarrassing to create more and
Dialogue: 0,0:04:46.99,0:04:48.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,more categories to \Nself-identify
Dialogue: 0,0:04:48.59,0:04:51.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,.,and re-self-identify, etc\NBut I think that it's really important
Dialogue: 0,0:04:51.68,0:04:55.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the first place, to be able to self\Nidentify with something in order to
Dialogue: 0,0:04:55.60,0:04:59.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,de-self-identify with an identity\N.that was arbitrarily assigned
Dialogue: 0,0:04:59.18,0:05:03.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I think, yes, it's necessary to find a\N.community, to create connections
Dialogue: 0,0:05:03.41,0:05:05.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to know we're \Nnot alone that there
Dialogue: 0,0:05:05.06,0:05:09.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is support and other people who are like \N.us, who understand us, who listen to us
Dialogue: 0,0:05:09.22,0:05:12.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If I had just one thing to say\NI think it would be that
Dialogue: 0,0:05:12.07,0:05:15.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,even if you don't understand, you \N.can always support and be with us
Dialogue: 0,0:05:15.41,0:05:19.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You can learn, you can deconstruct your \Npatterns of thought
Dialogue: 0,0:05:19.70,0:05:23.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,,you can educate yourself\Nyou can help your loved ones
Dialogue: 0,0:05:23.33,0:05:28.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,even if you don't fully understand\N.what matters is their gender identity
Dialogue: 0,0:05:28.17,0:05:34.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Secondly, all non-binary people have a\Ndifferent way of expressing
Dialogue: 0,0:05:34.01,0:05:37.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,their identity. There are people who \N,will undergo medical transitions
Dialogue: 0,0:05:37.61,0:05:39.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,,who will take hormones\N,undergo surgeries
Dialogue: 0,0:05:39.65,0:05:45.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,regardless others will not, and that \N, of how we might transition or not
Dialogue: 0,0:05:45.13,0:05:49.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,,.socially, medically, etc\Nour identity remains valid, and it exists
Dialogue: 0,0:05:49.59,0:05:52.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,.And there are many of us