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Dialogue: 0,0:00:00.00,0:00:01.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Even if you don’t get it.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:01.53,0:00:03.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You can always support us\Nand by an ally.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:03.74,0:00:05.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Our identity is legitimate.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:05.39,0:00:06.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It exist.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:09.19,0:00:11.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm Cami, I'm 22 years old\NI'm non-binary
Dialogue: 0,0:00:11.38,0:00:13.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I'm here to talk to you\Nabout non-binary identities.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:13.47,0:00:15.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Non-binary" is an umbrella term
Dialogue: 0,0:00:15.20,0:00:16.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that groups\Nall gender identities
Dialogue: 0,0:00:17.41,0:00:19.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that are neither\Nexclusively masculine
Dialogue: 0,0:00:19.32,0:00:20.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,nor feminine.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:20.75,0:00:22.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, you could have agender
Dialogue: 0,0:00:22.98,0:00:25.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"a" being without gender\Nneutral per say
Dialogue: 0,0:00:25.24,0:00:27.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or it can be \Nall fluid genders.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:27.51,0:00:30.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If we were to imagine\Ngender as a spectrum
Dialogue: 0,0:00:30.34,0:00:31.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with two ends
Dialogue: 0,0:00:31.19,0:00:32.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- masculine and feminine -
Dialogue: 0,0:00:32.55,0:00:35.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we could see a cursor,\Nmoving
Dialogue: 0,0:00:35.20,0:00:38.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,including all, gender fluid,\Ndemi-gender, pangender, etc.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:39.43,0:00:42.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I never really identified\Nas feminine.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:42.62,0:00:44.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,At 18,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:44.08,0:00:46.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was already questioning
Dialogue: 0,0:00:46.70,0:00:48.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,my gender identity
Dialogue: 0,0:00:48.14,0:00:49.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I met this trans man
Dialogue: 0,0:00:49.68,0:00:52.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with who I was with\Nfor some time
Dialogue: 0,0:00:52.14,0:00:54.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we were able\Nto find the term
Dialogue: 0,0:00:54.26,0:00:56.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for my identity,\Nwhich was non-binary.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:56.29,0:00:57.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I think that
Dialogue: 0,0:00:57.33,0:00:58.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because he was\Nmore informed
Dialogue: 0,0:00:58.81,0:01:00.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,than me\Nthat he knew
Dialogue: 0,0:01:00.27,0:01:02.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how to find the terms
Dialogue: 0,0:01:02.19,0:01:03.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on my identity.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:03.46,0:01:05.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Gender identity,\Nit's who we are.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:05.53,0:01:06.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's the gender we feel inside.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:06.90,0:01:09.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's what we live,\Nwhat we experience.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:09.10,0:01:10.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And gender expression
Dialogue: 0,0:01:10.50,0:01:13.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's what we show people.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:13.24,0:01:15.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's the way\Nwe express our identity.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:15.85,0:01:18.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So we can have\Na gender identity
Dialogue: 0,0:01:18.05,0:01:20.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for example: masculine
Dialogue: 0,0:01:20.10,0:01:21.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we have a man
Dialogue: 0,0:01:21.67,0:01:23.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that would express his gender
Dialogue: 0,0:01:23.28,0:01:25.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as feminine, \Nwith many features
Dialogue: 0,0:01:25.20,0:01:26.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that are "feminine".
Dialogue: 0,0:01:26.40,0:01:27.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Take for example:\NBilal Hassani
Dialogue: 0,0:01:27.77,0:01:28.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that identifies as a man
Dialogue: 0,0:01:28.91,0:01:30.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and expresses himself\Nin a feminine way.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:30.98,0:01:33.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I told my parents
Dialogue: 0,0:01:33.69,0:01:35.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that I was non-binary
Dialogue: 0,0:01:35.08,0:01:36.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and that I wanted \Nto change my name
Dialogue: 0,0:01:36.56,0:01:37.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,at the same time.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:37.79,0:01:40.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was 20,\Nso 2 years ago.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:40.54,0:01:41.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And um
Dialogue: 0,0:01:41.54,0:01:43.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My mom took it well.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:43.91,0:01:47.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She was already exposed\Nto gender questioning
Dialogue: 0,0:01:47.14,0:01:49.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,accustomed to the idea \Nenough to be a safe space.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:49.45,0:01:50.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I felt safe.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:51.31,0:01:53.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My dad was more sensitive.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:53.29,0:01:55.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It took me a bit more time\Nto talk to him about it
Dialogue: 0,0:01:55.15,0:01:56.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I didn't do it
Dialogue: 0,0:01:56.82,0:01:58.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in person.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:58.14,0:01:59.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I sent him a message
Dialogue: 0,0:01:59.35,0:02:00.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because it was easier\Nfor me to do
Dialogue: 0,0:02:00.95,0:02:03.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and he took it well enough.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:03.39,0:02:04.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He didn't understand everything
Dialogue: 0,0:02:04.71,0:02:06.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but in any case,\Nhe would be there for me
Dialogue: 0,0:02:06.97,0:02:08.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and that \Nit didn't change anything
Dialogue: 0,0:02:08.73,0:02:09.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that he loved me\Neither way.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:09.86,0:02:11.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For my grandmother,\Nthat is a different story
Dialogue: 0,0:02:11.63,0:02:14.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because it was an\N"out-of-reach" topic for her.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:14.36,0:02:15.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She grew up \Nin the countryside
Dialogue: 0,0:02:15.98,0:02:17.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then moved to Paris.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:17.56,0:02:20.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She stayed with my grandfather\Nfor 50 years.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:20.12,0:02:22.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She lived in a very\Ncis heteronormative world
Dialogue: 0,0:02:22.68,0:02:24.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where she never questioned\Nher own identity
Dialogue: 0,0:02:24.72,0:02:26.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or the identity of others.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:26.19,0:02:28.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, when I told her,\Nshe was flabbergasted
Dialogue: 0,0:02:28.74,0:02:32.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but she maintained\Nher composure
Dialogue: 0,0:02:32.13,0:02:35.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the best way she could\Nwith me.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:35.25,0:02:36.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She makes a lot of effort.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:36.36,0:02:37.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She barely makes mistakes
Dialogue: 0,0:02:37.76,0:02:39.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when using pronouns.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:39.17,0:02:41.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I applied to change my name
Dialogue: 0,0:02:41.49,0:02:43.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in 2019.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:43.90,0:02:46.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I applied at the town hall
Dialogue: 0,0:02:46.22,0:02:47.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where I lived.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:48.60,0:02:51.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I filled out an application\Nwith statements
Dialogue: 0,0:02:51.75,0:02:52.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from my loved ones
Dialogue: 0,0:02:52.83,0:02:54.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to prove of them\Nusing the name Cami
Dialogue: 0,0:02:54.95,0:02:56.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when addressing me.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:56.56,0:02:59.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I asked my school\Nto complete a reference letter
Dialogue: 0,0:02:59.86,0:03:00.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,etc.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:00.67,0:03:02.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Then I sent in my application.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:02.03,0:03:03.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I waited a couple of months
Dialogue: 0,0:03:03.75,0:03:05.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- it depends\Non each town hall -
Dialogue: 0,0:03:05.34,0:03:07.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the application\Ngot accepted.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:07.67,0:03:09.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To misgender someone
Dialogue: 0,0:03:09.09,0:03:11.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is to address them
Dialogue: 0,0:03:11.38,0:03:13.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by using the wrong pronouns.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:13.08,0:03:15.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So gendering \Na non-binary person
Dialogue: 0,0:03:15.36,0:03:18.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that would have explicitly \Nindicated their preference
Dialogue: 0,0:03:18.75,0:03:20.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to use neutral pronouns\Nsuch as they/them
Dialogue: 0,0:03:20.59,0:03:23.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and gendering them\Nby using she/him pronouns.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:23.74,0:03:24.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Me, personally
Dialogue: 0,0:03:24.68,0:03:27.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I use feminine pronouns\Nwhile speaking
Dialogue: 0,0:03:27.05,0:03:29.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and neutral in writing.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:29.30,0:03:31.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But, really, in general
Dialogue: 0,0:03:31.27,0:03:33.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have the tendency\Nto say right away
Dialogue: 0,0:03:33.02,0:03:34.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that I prefer \Nto be addressed
Dialogue: 0,0:03:34.91,0:03:36.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as she/her while speaking.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:36.75,0:03:38.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,After, if the person\Ndoesn't say it
Dialogue: 0,0:03:38.58,0:03:42.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you prefer being sure\Nto gender them correctly
Dialogue: 0,0:03:42.76,0:03:44.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you can ask\Nfor their pronouns
Dialogue: 0,0:03:44.38,0:03:46.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or wait till they say it\Nthemselves
Dialogue: 0,0:03:46.99,0:03:48.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in order\Nto gender them correctly.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:48.74,0:03:51.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In past videos\Nthat I did
Dialogue: 0,0:03:51.50,0:03:53.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there were a lot\Nof comments
Dialogue: 0,0:03:53.14,0:03:55.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that invalidated our identities.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:55.71,0:03:59.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That didn't value \Nour gender expression
Dialogue: 0,0:03:59.16,0:04:00.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and our gender identities.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:00.65,0:04:02.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then um
Dialogue: 0,0:04:02.10,0:04:03.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for me, I barely read\Nthose comments.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:03.74,0:04:05.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Obviously, because,\Nfor the most part
Dialogue: 0,0:04:05.46,0:04:06.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they're malicious
Dialogue: 0,0:04:06.56,0:04:08.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or even \Ntruly negative and hateful
Dialogue: 0,0:04:08.51,0:04:10.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they'll just make me sad.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:10.19,0:04:12.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I participated \Nin a reporting
Dialogue: 0,0:04:12.55,0:04:14.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in which they said
Dialogue: 0,0:04:14.32,0:04:15.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that it was a fashion statement.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:15.77,0:04:17.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That it only appeared \Nsome years ago
Dialogue: 0,0:04:17.96,0:04:19.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the States,\Nabout 10 years ago.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:19.71,0:04:22.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That it was \Na true fashion statement
Dialogue: 0,0:04:22.24,0:04:24.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,also unisex fashion, etc.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:24.45,0:04:25.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's completely false.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:25.56,0:04:27.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I also think that
Dialogue: 0,0:04:27.12,0:04:28.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,um
Dialogue: 0,0:04:28.19,0:04:30.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that it's a big big Caucasian
Dialogue: 0,0:04:30.49,0:04:32.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and a super European, \NEurocentric point of view.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:32.91,0:04:35.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because there are, \Nin many cultures,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:35.72,0:04:37.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,different gender identities
Dialogue: 0,0:04:37.43,0:04:39.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that have been erased
Dialogue: 0,0:04:39.41,0:04:41.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,during colonialism\Nobviously.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:41.04,0:04:41.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Often enough,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:41.75,0:04:44.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you can hear people say\Nthat its problematic
Dialogue: 0,0:04:44.58,0:04:46.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or that it's annoying
Dialogue: 0,0:04:46.08,0:04:48.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,creating boxes within boxes
Dialogue: 0,0:04:48.03,0:04:49.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to identify, reidentify, etc.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:49.97,0:04:51.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But I think \Nthat it's super important
Dialogue: 0,0:04:51.77,0:04:53.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to be able, in the first place,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:53.60,0:04:55.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to identify yourself to something
Dialogue: 0,0:04:55.17,0:04:57.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and to un-identify\Nfrom an identity
Dialogue: 0,0:04:57.40,0:04:59.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that was arbitrarily assigned \Nto you.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:59.31,0:05:00.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think that it's necessary
Dialogue: 0,0:05:00.80,0:05:02.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to find your community
Dialogue: 0,0:05:02.29,0:05:03.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to build connections
Dialogue: 0,0:05:03.37,0:05:04.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to know your not alone
Dialogue: 0,0:05:04.44,0:05:05.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that there's support
Dialogue: 0,0:05:05.47,0:05:07.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that there are other people\Nlike you that exist
Dialogue: 0,0:05:07.87,0:05:09.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that understand you,\Nthat will listen.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:09.29,0:05:11.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If I only had one thing to say
Dialogue: 0,0:05:11.15,0:05:11.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think I'd say
Dialogue: 0,0:05:11.94,0:05:13.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that even if\Nyou don't get it
Dialogue: 0,0:05:13.51,0:05:15.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you can always support\Nand be an ally.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:16.22,0:05:17.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You can learn\Nand desensitize yourself
Dialogue: 0,0:05:17.90,0:05:19.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of ideologies and ways of thinking.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:19.70,0:05:21.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You can educated yourself
Dialogue: 0,0:05:21.48,0:05:23.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,help your loved ones
Dialogue: 0,0:05:23.16,0:05:24.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,even if you don't understand it
Dialogue: 0,0:05:24.43,0:05:28.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,everything regarding\Ntheir gender identity.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:28.28,0:05:29.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The second thing would be that
Dialogue: 0,0:05:29.87,0:05:30.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,every non-binary person
Dialogue: 0,0:05:30.100,0:05:34.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,has a different mean of expressing\Ntheir identity.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:34.85,0:05:35.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That there are people
Dialogue: 0,0:05:35.86,0:05:37.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that will medically transition
Dialogue: 0,0:05:37.90,0:05:39.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that will take hormones
Dialogue: 0,0:05:39.07,0:05:40.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that will do operations, or not.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:40.54,0:05:45.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And regardless of the way \Nin which we'll transition, or not
Dialogue: 0,0:05:45.34,0:05:46.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,socially, medically, etc.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:46.86,0:05:48.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,our identity is legitimate.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:48.92,0:05:50.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It exist.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:50.11,0:05:52.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And we are many that exist.