Even if you don’t understand, you can still support and stand by us. Our identity is still real and valid. [Non-binary Stories] My name is Cami, I’m 22 And I’m here to talk about my non-binary identity. Non-binary is an umbrella term for any gender identity that isn’t exclusively masculine or exclusively feminine. That could be agender “a” indicating the absence of gender which is neutral or it could be a fluid identity. If we imagine gender as a spectrum with two poles: masculine and feminine A fluid identity might move around that spectrum. This includes people who are gender fluid, demigender, pangender, etc. I never really identified with femininity. At 18, I was already questioning my gender identity and I met a trans man who I dated for a while.