Even if you don’t understand, you can still be there for us. Our identity is valid. It's real and it matters. I'm Camille, I'm 22, non-binary. I'm here to talk to you about non-binarity. Non-binarity is an umbrella term for gender identities beyond male/female. That could mean being agender, having no gender, being neutral. Or identities that shift. Imagine gender as a spectrum with male and female poles. Some people move along the spectrum. Like genderfluid, demigender, pangender people, and so on. I never really felt connected to femininity. At 18, I began questioning my gender identity. I met a trans man I was with for a while, and together we found the words to name my identity: non-binary. He had more information than me, which really helped me understand.