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Dialogue: 0,0:00:43.47,0:01:11.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Music]
Dialogue: 0,0:01:11.57,0:01:30.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Soft piano music]
Dialogue: 0,0:01:30.83,0:01:32.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>Like most of us, 
Dialogue: 0,0:01:32.67,0:01:35.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I’m afraid of getting old 
Dialogue: 0,0:01:35.63,0:01:36.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and of the loneliness 
Dialogue: 0,0:01:36.90,0:01:38.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that seems to come with old age. 
Dialogue: 0,0:01:38.87,0:01:42.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:42.33,0:01:46.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But maybe things don’t have to be that way. 
Dialogue: 0,0:01:46.43,0:01:50.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:50.20,0:01:52.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jordi is a young artist.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:52.27,0:01:53.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>Hello. Come in.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:53.30,0:01:56.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>And he lives in a unique old folk’s home 
Dialogue: 0,0:01:56.50,0:01:57.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the Netherlands.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:57.60,0:01:59.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:59.80,0:02:01.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He paints and creates craft projects, 
Dialogue: 0,0:02:01.80,0:02:04.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like this table he made from a piano crate.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:04.93,0:02:06.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And you do that a lot with the residents; 
Dialogue: 0,0:02:06.60,0:02:07.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you make crafts and things.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:07.60,0:02:09.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>Yeah. I try to do it.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:09.43,0:02:11.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>And is that a picture of your family?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:11.20,0:02:12.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Can you show me? 
Dialogue: 0,0:02:12.47,0:02:14.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>My grandfather and my grandma 
Dialogue: 0,0:02:14.87,0:02:16.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when I was younger.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:16.07,0:02:17.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:17.83,0:02:18.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>It’s adorable.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:18.57,0:02:20.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>Yeah. I love them.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:20.20,0:02:23.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I love them a lot.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:23.50,0:02:24.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>Is it . . . 
Dialogue: 0,0:02:24.27,0:02:26.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Is the relationship with your grandparents 
Dialogue: 0,0:02:26.10,0:02:28.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that helps you be so good with the elderly here?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:28.97,0:02:31.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>I think also because they . . . 
Dialogue: 0,0:02:31.47,0:02:34.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they teach me so much good things, 
Dialogue: 0,0:02:34.63,0:02:38.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how to go around to people that uh  . . . 
Dialogue: 0,0:02:38.90,0:02:41.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah. Nah. Everything.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:41.87,0:02:44.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:44.20,0:02:45.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>Not long ago, 
Dialogue: 0,0:02:45.23,0:02:48.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the Dutch senior citizens who live at Humanitas 
Dialogue: 0,0:02:48.47,0:02:50.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,invited Jordi and five other students 
Dialogue: 0,0:02:50.47,0:02:53.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to move in rent-free.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:53.47,0:02:56.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The students all told me that living here 
Dialogue: 0,0:02:56.13,0:02:57.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is nothing like you’d expect.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:57.70,0:03:23.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:23.23,0:03:24.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>One of Jordi’s favorite ways 
Dialogue: 0,0:03:24.80,0:03:26.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to spend time with his neighbors 
Dialogue: 0,0:03:26.73,0:03:29.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is by taking them around the town of DeVanter 
Dialogue: 0,0:03:29.40,0:03:32.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by a specialized tandem bicycle.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:32.30,0:03:34.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It’s just one of the ways that Humanitas 
Dialogue: 0,0:03:34.50,0:03:36.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,tries to make life in its community 
Dialogue: 0,0:03:36.70,0:03:38.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a little more fun.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:38.13,0:03:59.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:59.07,0:04:01.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>It was CEO’s Gea Sijpkes idea 
Dialogue: 0,0:04:01.27,0:04:04.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to offer these students rooms at Humanitas.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:04.47,0:04:05.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And all she asked in return 
Dialogue: 0,0:04:05.90,0:04:07.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,was that the students spend 
Dialogue: 0,0:04:07.20,0:04:09.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,at least 30 hours a month 
Dialogue: 0,0:04:09.73,0:04:14.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,acting neighborly to the senior residents.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:14.40,0:04:20.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:20.93,0:04:24.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jurrien Mentink says that Humanitas’ offer 
Dialogue: 0,0:04:24.03,0:04:26.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,couldn’t have come at a better time.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:26.40,0:04:27.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Many Dutch students 
Dialogue: 0,0:04:27.40,0:04:29.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in and around Amsterdam today 
Dialogue: 0,0:04:29.60,0:04:31.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,can’t find a room to rent at all. 
Dialogue: 0,0:04:31.50,0:04:32.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>Now I have to cook dinner.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:32.73,0:04:33.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>Yes.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:33.87,0:04:51.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:51.13,0:04:53.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>Jurrien is 22 years old, 
Dialogue: 0,0:04:53.67,0:04:55.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and his neighbors, like Joke Van Beek, 
Dialogue: 0,0:04:55.80,0:04:58.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are in their 80’s and 90’s.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:58.60,0:05:00.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:00.50,0:05:01.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Despite the age gap, 
Dialogue: 0,0:05:01.83,0:05:04.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jurrien and Joke’s friendship is a dynamic 
Dialogue: 0,0:05:04.43,0:05:07.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that often seems like it’s between two teenagers.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:07.53,0:05:59.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:59.37,0:06:01.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>Friendships like this one 
Dialogue: 0,0:06:01.17,0:06:04.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are exactly what Humanitas is trying to nurture.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:04.37,0:06:14.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:14.50,0:06:17.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How Jurrien spends his 30 hours a month 
Dialogue: 0,0:06:17.17,0:06:20.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of service is up to him.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:20.13,0:06:24.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,His official title isn’t staff or volunteer.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:24.40,0:06:26.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It’s good neighbor.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:26.17,0:06:37.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:37.30,0:06:38.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>At Humanitas, 
Dialogue: 0,0:06:38.60,0:06:41.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,good neighbor somehow means being part local, 
Dialogue: 0,0:06:41.80,0:06:43.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,part friend, 
Dialogue: 0,0:06:43.20,0:06:44.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,part grandchild, 
Dialogue: 0,0:06:44.43,0:06:45.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,part social worker, 
Dialogue: 0,0:06:45.97,0:06:48.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,part healthcare provider, 
Dialogue: 0,0:06:48.33,0:06:50.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:50.23,0:06:52.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and some days it means teaching 
Dialogue: 0,0:06:52.67,0:06:55.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,an 84-year-old woman to play beer pong.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:55.63,0:07:42.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:42.27,0:07:54.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Rock music]
Dialogue: 0,0:07:54.47,0:08:45.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:45.50,0:08:48.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>I noticed early on that the students here 
Dialogue: 0,0:08:48.03,0:08:52.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,often talk with a sort of calm beyond their years.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:52.03,0:08:55.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They don’t often seem much of a hurry.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:55.53,0:08:57.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jurrien says that is one of the most 
Dialogue: 0,0:08:57.47,0:08:59.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,important life lessons 
Dialogue: 0,0:08:59.27,0:09:00.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the students have learned 
Dialogue: 0,0:09:00.23,0:09:01.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from their elderly neighbors.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:01.53,0:09:29.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:29.50,0:09:32.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The students all talk about Mrs. Hofsteede 
Dialogue: 0,0:09:32.23,0:09:35.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as a role model 
Dialogue: 0,0:09:35.07,0:09:36.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:36.37,0:09:40.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for living a full and happy life in later years.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:40.83,0:09:42.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She moved in a few years ago.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:42.53,0:09:51.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:51.63,0:09:54.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She lives on the seventh floor 
Dialogue: 0,0:09:54.43,0:09:57.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in a spacious room overlooking the park, 
Dialogue: 0,0:09:57.30,0:09:59.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and she says she feel younger 
Dialogue: 0,0:09:59.17,0:10:01.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,than her 88 years.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:01.80,0:10:03.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>Hello.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:03.93,0:10:12.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:12.73,0:10:15.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>At lunch time, the most social time, 
Dialogue: 0,0:10:15.90,0:10:17.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,every day at Humanitas, 
Dialogue: 0,0:10:17.87,0:10:21.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mrs. Hofsteede always sits at the same table.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:21.67,0:10:23.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You see, the Humanitas dining room 
Dialogue: 0,0:10:23.73,0:10:26.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is a lot like a high school cafeteria.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:26.77,0:10:29.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mrs. Hofsteede is quite popular, 
Dialogue: 0,0:10:29.67,0:10:31.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and so she always sits 
Dialogue: 0,0:10:31.20,0:10:33.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with the other popular girls, 
Dialogue: 0,0:10:33.77,0:10:35.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like her best friend Antonia, 
Dialogue: 0,0:10:35.73,0:10:39.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,whose nickname is “the trash compacter.”
Dialogue: 0,0:10:39.83,0:10:40.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>Appetite. 
Dialogue: 0,0:10:40.80,0:10:41.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>Yeah? 
Dialogue: 0,0:10:41.53,0:10:42.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>I like that.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:43.00,0:11:17.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:17.07,0:11:18.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>And like high school, 
Dialogue: 0,0:11:18.73,0:11:20.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,lunchtime is when the rumor mill 
Dialogue: 0,0:11:20.70,0:11:23.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,really starts to turn.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:23.33,0:11:25.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Outside of the time they volunteer, 
Dialogue: 0,0:11:25.43,0:11:26.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the students are free to live 
Dialogue: 0,0:11:26.90,0:11:28.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,without any special restrictions,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:28.90,0:11:32.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,going out or bringing people home 
Dialogue: 0,0:11:32.03,0:11:33.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,just as they like.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:33.43,0:12:12.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:12.63,0:12:14.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>And there’s a lot more flirting 
Dialogue: 0,0:12:14.43,0:12:16.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that goes on than I expected to find 
Dialogue: 0,0:12:16.43,0:12:17.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in an old folk’s home.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:17.93,0:12:52.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:52.13,0:12:53.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>The students all like 
Dialogue: 0,0:12:53.27,0:12:55.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,teaching their senior neighbors a lesson 
Dialogue: 0,0:12:55.43,0:12:57.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from time to time.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:58.00,0:13:01.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:01.97,0:13:03.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Everything Mrs. Middelburg knows 
Dialogue: 0,0:13:03.40,0:13:05.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about the internet she learned from Jurrien.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:05.67,0:13:27.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:27.27,0:13:29.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>But Jurrien says that none of this feels 
Dialogue: 0,0:13:29.57,0:13:32.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like some community service.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:32.53,0:13:35.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He and Mrs. Middelburg just like hanging out.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:35.90,0:14:11.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:11.17,0:14:13.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>And how do Jurrien's own family 
Dialogue: 0,0:14:13.33,0:14:15.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,feel about him living here at Humanitas?
Dialogue: 0,0:14:16.00,0:14:17.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:17.50,0:14:19.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,His parents have been as surprised 
Dialogue: 0,0:14:19.63,0:14:22.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as he has been to find that Jurrien 
Dialogue: 0,0:14:22.20,0:14:24.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,seems very happy here indeed.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:24.00,0:14:45.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:45.80,0:14:46.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>There is, of course, 
Dialogue: 0,0:14:46.83,0:14:48.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the unavoidable loneliness 
Dialogue: 0,0:14:48.67,0:14:52.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that accompanies dementia.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:52.30,0:14:53.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The dementia ward is equipped 
Dialogue: 0,0:14:53.97,0:14:56.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with everything you could expect.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:56.77,0:14:58.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But it has little of the warmth 
Dialogue: 0,0:14:58.50,0:15:02.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of the rest of the residents.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:02.60,0:15:05.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jordi feels an added responsibility 
Dialogue: 0,0:15:05.37,0:15:07.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to help those suffering dementia.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:07.43,0:15:45.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:15:46.00,0:15:49.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>Lucius is this man’s stage name, 
Dialogue: 0,0:15:49.27,0:15:51.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but I was never given another one, 
Dialogue: 0,0:15:51.80,0:15:54.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I never got the chance to ask.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:54.83,0:15:56.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We didn’t get to talk for very long.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:56.63,0:15:59.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Lucius lost the ability to talk much 
Dialogue: 0,0:15:59.47,0:16:01.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about the here and now.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:01.10,0:16:10.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:16:10.90,0:16:13.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>I saw in Lucius immediately 
Dialogue: 0,0:16:13.30,0:16:15.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the kind of kindred spirit, 
Dialogue: 0,0:16:15.93,0:16:19.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it was like a glimpse of a possible future self
Dialogue: 0,0:16:19.37,0:16:24.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,set adrift in my own fading memories.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:24.30,0:16:27.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Having exchanged barely a word with him, 
Dialogue: 0,0:16:27.13,0:16:29.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,meeting Lucius affected me a great deal.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:29.97,0:16:39.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:16:39.83,0:16:42.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The hardest thing about living here, 
Dialogue: 0,0:16:42.30,0:16:44.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,old or young, 
Dialogue: 0,0:16:44.50,0:16:49.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is how often death comes to call.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:49.03,0:16:51.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Some of the seniors are still racked 
Dialogue: 0,0:16:51.30,0:16:54.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with intense longing for lost loved ones.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:54.10,0:17:13.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:17:13.00,0:17:15.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,While many others, like Mrs. Middelburg, 
Dialogue: 0,0:17:15.60,0:17:18.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,seem almost unfazed by the realities of death.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:18.67,0:17:35.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:17:35.13,0:17:37.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A few of the students had never seen death 
Dialogue: 0,0:17:37.70,0:17:40.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,up close before living here.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:40.70,0:17:43.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For them, facing death has been the hardest 
Dialogue: 0,0:17:43.47,0:17:45.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and maybe most valuable lesson 
Dialogue: 0,0:17:45.50,0:17:47.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that Humanitas has taught them.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:47.33,0:18:32.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:18:32.33,0:18:34.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jurrien is about to graduate 
Dialogue: 0,0:18:34.17,0:18:37.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from a degree in urban planning, 
Dialogue: 0,0:18:37.87,0:18:40.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but he is now considering devoting his career 
Dialogue: 0,0:18:40.57,0:18:42.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to old age care instead.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:42.73,0:18:52.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:18:52.53,0:18:53.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No matter which direction 
Dialogue: 0,0:18:53.93,0:18:55.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he chooses from here, 
Dialogue: 0,0:18:55.73,0:18:57.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jurrien won’t forget the importance 
Dialogue: 0,0:18:57.53,0:18:59.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of being a good neighbor, 
Dialogue: 0,0:18:59.13,0:19:03.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like he has been to Joke Van Beek.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:03.10,0:19:04.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That day he told me 
Dialogue: 0,0:19:04.43,0:19:06.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that he had started to see the signs 
Dialogue: 0,0:19:06.53,0:19:08.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of Joke slipping away, 
Dialogue: 0,0:19:08.97,0:19:11.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then only a few weeks later, 
Dialogue: 0,0:19:11.63,0:19:13.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Joke passed on.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:13.80,0:19:16.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I know that Jurrien has missed her 
Dialogue: 0,0:19:16.17,0:19:17.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,since she’s been gone.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:17.57,0:19:23.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:19:23.63,0:19:25.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It took me a litttle while to grab hold 
Dialogue: 0,0:19:25.97,0:19:28.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of what makes this place different 
Dialogue: 0,0:19:28.17,0:19:31.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,than anywhere else I’ve been.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:31.50,0:19:33.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Humanitas hasn’t somehow 
Dialogue: 0,0:19:33.73,0:19:37.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,cut out the hard realities of aging.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:37.47,0:19:40.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It’s just that it lets so much more than that 
Dialogue: 0,0:19:40.90,0:19:42.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,through its front door.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:42.60,0:19:45.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:19:45.17,0:19:46.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As I went to say goodbye 
Dialogue: 0,0:19:46.40,0:19:48.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on the last day of my visit, 
Dialogue: 0,0:19:48.10,0:19:51.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I passed by the weekly wheelchair dance recital.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:51.17,0:19:55.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Clapping and music] 
Dialogue: 0,0:19:55.07,0:19:56.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This was the other moment 
Dialogue: 0,0:19:56.37,0:19:58.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that really stayed with me.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:58.33,0:20:03.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Upbeat Dutch music] 
Dialogue: 0,0:20:03.37,0:20:04.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Again, I could see myself 
Dialogue: 0,0:20:04.90,0:20:08.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,reflected back years on from now, 
Dialogue: 0,0:20:08.67,0:20:10.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and for that moment, 
Dialogue: 0,0:20:10.50,0:20:12.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I really didn’t mind the idea of getting old.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:12.73,0:20:13.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:20:13.57,0:20:23.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Upbeat Dutch music] 
Dialogue: 0,0:20:23.57,0:20:39.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,