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Dialogue: 0,0:00:44.03,0:01:12.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Music]
Dialogue: 0,0:01:12.13,0:01:31.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Soft piano music]
Dialogue: 0,0:01:31.40,0:01:33.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>Like most of us, 
Dialogue: 0,0:01:33.23,0:01:36.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I’m afraid of getting old 
Dialogue: 0,0:01:36.20,0:01:37.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and of the loneliness 
Dialogue: 0,0:01:37.47,0:01:39.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that seems to come with old age. 
Dialogue: 0,0:01:39.43,0:01:42.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:42.90,0:01:47.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But maybe things don’t have to be that way. 
Dialogue: 0,0:01:47.00,0:01:50.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:50.77,0:01:52.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jordi is a young artist.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:52.83,0:01:53.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>Hello. Come in.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:53.87,0:01:57.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>And he lives in a unique old folk’s home 
Dialogue: 0,0:01:57.07,0:01:58.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the Netherlands.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:58.17,0:02:00.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:00.37,0:02:02.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He paints and creates craft projects, 
Dialogue: 0,0:02:02.37,0:02:05.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like this table he made from a piano crate.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:05.50,0:02:07.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And you do that a lot with the residents; 
Dialogue: 0,0:02:07.17,0:02:08.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you make crafts and things.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:08.17,0:02:09.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>Yeah. I try to do it.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:10.00,0:02:11.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>And is that a picture of your family?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:11.77,0:02:13.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Can you show me? 
Dialogue: 0,0:02:13.03,0:02:15.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>My grandfather and my grandma 
Dialogue: 0,0:02:15.43,0:02:16.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when I was younger.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:16.63,0:02:18.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:18.40,0:02:19.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>It’s adorable.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:19.13,0:02:20.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>Yeah. I love them.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:20.77,0:02:24.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I love them a lot.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:24.07,0:02:24.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>Is it . . . 
Dialogue: 0,0:02:24.83,0:02:26.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Is the relationship with your grandparents 
Dialogue: 0,0:02:26.67,0:02:29.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that helps you be so good with the elderly here?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:29.53,0:02:32.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>I think also because they . . . 
Dialogue: 0,0:02:32.03,0:02:35.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they teach me so much good things, 
Dialogue: 0,0:02:35.20,0:02:39.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how to go around to people that uh  . . . 
Dialogue: 0,0:02:39.47,0:02:42.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah. Nah. Everything.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:42.43,0:02:44.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:44.77,0:02:45.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>Not long ago, 
Dialogue: 0,0:02:45.80,0:02:49.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the Dutch senior citizens who live at Humanitas 
Dialogue: 0,0:02:49.03,0:02:51.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,invited Jordi and five other students 
Dialogue: 0,0:02:51.03,0:02:54.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to move in rent-free.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:54.03,0:02:56.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The students all told me that living here 
Dialogue: 0,0:02:56.70,0:02:58.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is nothing like you’d expect.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:58.27,0:03:23.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:23.80,0:03:25.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>One of Jordi’s favorite ways 
Dialogue: 0,0:03:25.37,0:03:27.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to spend time with his neighbors 
Dialogue: 0,0:03:27.30,0:03:29.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is by taking them around the town of DeVanter 
Dialogue: 0,0:03:29.97,0:03:32.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by a specialized tandem bicycle.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:32.87,0:03:35.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It’s just one of the ways that Humanitas 
Dialogue: 0,0:03:35.07,0:03:37.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,tries to make life in its community 
Dialogue: 0,0:03:37.27,0:03:38.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a little more fun.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:38.70,0:03:59.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:59.63,0:04:01.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>It was CEO’s Gea Sijpkes idea 
Dialogue: 0,0:04:01.83,0:04:05.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to offer these students rooms at Humanitas.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:05.03,0:04:06.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And all she asked in return 
Dialogue: 0,0:04:06.47,0:04:07.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,was that the students spend 
Dialogue: 0,0:04:07.77,0:04:10.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,at least 30 hours a month 
Dialogue: 0,0:04:10.30,0:04:14.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,acting neighborly to the senior residents.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:14.97,0:04:21.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:21.50,0:04:24.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jurrien Mentink says that Humanitas’ offer 
Dialogue: 0,0:04:24.60,0:04:26.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,couldn’t have come at a better time.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:26.97,0:04:27.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Many Dutch students 
Dialogue: 0,0:04:27.97,0:04:30.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in and around Amsterdam today 
Dialogue: 0,0:04:30.17,0:04:32.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,can’t find a room to rent at all. 
Dialogue: 0,0:04:32.07,0:04:33.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>Now I have to cook dinner.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:33.30,0:04:34.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>Yes.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:34.43,0:04:51.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:51.70,0:04:54.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>Jurrien is 22 years old, 
Dialogue: 0,0:04:54.23,0:04:56.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and his neighbors, like Joke Van Beek, 
Dialogue: 0,0:04:56.37,0:04:59.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are in their 80’s and 90’s.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:59.17,0:05:01.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:01.07,0:05:02.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Despite the age gap, 
Dialogue: 0,0:05:02.40,0:05:05.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jurrien and Joke’s friendship is a dynamic 
Dialogue: 0,0:05:05.00,0:05:08.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that often seems like it’s between two teenagers.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:08.10,0:05:59.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:59.93,0:06:01.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>Friendships like this one 
Dialogue: 0,0:06:01.73,0:06:04.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are exactly what Humanitas is trying to nurture.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:04.93,0:06:15.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:15.07,0:06:17.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How Jurrien spends his 30 hours a month 
Dialogue: 0,0:06:17.73,0:06:20.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of service is up to him.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:20.70,0:06:24.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,His official title isn’t staff or volunteer.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:24.97,0:06:26.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It’s good neighbor.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:26.73,0:06:37.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:37.87,0:06:39.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>At Humanitas, 
Dialogue: 0,0:06:39.17,0:06:42.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,good neighbor somehow means being part local, 
Dialogue: 0,0:06:42.37,0:06:43.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,part friend, 
Dialogue: 0,0:06:43.77,0:06:44.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,part grandchild, 
Dialogue: 0,0:06:45.00,0:06:46.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,part social worker, 
Dialogue: 0,0:06:46.53,0:06:48.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,part healthcare provider, 
Dialogue: 0,0:06:48.90,0:06:50.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:50.80,0:06:53.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and some days it means teaching 
Dialogue: 0,0:06:53.23,0:06:56.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,an 84-year-old woman to play beer pong.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:56.20,0:07:42.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:42.83,0:07:55.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Rock music]
Dialogue: 0,0:07:55.03,0:08:46.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:46.07,0:08:48.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>I noticed early on that the students here 
Dialogue: 0,0:08:48.60,0:08:52.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,often talk with a sort of calm beyond their years.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:52.60,0:08:56.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They don’t often seem much of a hurry.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:56.10,0:08:58.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jurrien says that is one of the most 
Dialogue: 0,0:08:58.03,0:08:59.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,important life lessons 
Dialogue: 0,0:08:59.83,0:09:00.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the students have learned 
Dialogue: 0,0:09:00.80,0:09:02.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from their elderly neighbors.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:02.10,0:09:30.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:30.07,0:09:32.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The students all talk about Mrs. Hofsteede 
Dialogue: 0,0:09:32.80,0:09:35.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as a role model 
Dialogue: 0,0:09:35.63,0:09:36.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:36.93,0:09:41.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for living a full and happy life in later years.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:41.40,0:09:43.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She moved in a few years ago.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:43.10,0:09:52.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:52.20,0:09:55.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She lives on the seventh floor 
Dialogue: 0,0:09:55.00,0:09:57.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in a spacious room overlooking the park, 
Dialogue: 0,0:09:57.87,0:09:59.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and she says she feel younger 
Dialogue: 0,0:09:59.73,0:10:02.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,than her 88 years.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:02.37,0:10:04.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>Hello.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:04.50,0:10:13.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:13.30,0:10:16.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>At lunch time, the most social time, 
Dialogue: 0,0:10:16.47,0:10:18.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,every day at Humanitas, 
Dialogue: 0,0:10:18.43,0:10:22.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mrs. Hofsteede always sits at the same table.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:22.23,0:10:24.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You see, the Humanitas dining room 
Dialogue: 0,0:10:24.30,0:10:27.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is a lot like a high school cafeteria.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:27.33,0:10:30.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mrs. Hofsteede is quite popular, 
Dialogue: 0,0:10:30.23,0:10:31.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and so she always sits 
Dialogue: 0,0:10:31.77,0:10:34.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with the other popular girls, 
Dialogue: 0,0:10:34.33,0:10:36.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like her best friend Antonia, 
Dialogue: 0,0:10:36.30,0:10:40.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,whose nickname is “the trash compacter.”
Dialogue: 0,0:10:40.40,0:10:41.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>Appetite. 
Dialogue: 0,0:10:41.37,0:10:42.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>Yeah? 
Dialogue: 0,0:10:42.10,0:10:43.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>I like that.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:43.57,0:11:17.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:17.63,0:11:19.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>And like high school, 
Dialogue: 0,0:11:19.30,0:11:21.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,lunchtime is when the rumor mill 
Dialogue: 0,0:11:21.27,0:11:23.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,really starts to turn.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:23.90,0:11:26.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Outside of the time they volunteer, 
Dialogue: 0,0:11:26.00,0:11:27.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the students are free to live 
Dialogue: 0,0:11:27.47,0:11:29.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,without any special restrictions,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:29.47,0:11:32.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,going out or bringing people home 
Dialogue: 0,0:11:32.60,0:11:34.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,just as they like.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:34.00,0:12:13.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:13.20,0:12:15.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>And there’s a lot more flirting 
Dialogue: 0,0:12:15.00,0:12:17.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that goes on than I expected to find 
Dialogue: 0,0:12:17.00,0:12:18.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in an old folk’s home.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:18.50,0:12:52.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:52.70,0:12:53.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>The students all like 
Dialogue: 0,0:12:53.83,0:12:55.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,teaching their senior neighbors a lesson 
Dialogue: 0,0:12:56.00,0:12:58.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from time to time.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:58.57,0:13:02.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:02.53,0:13:03.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Everything Mrs. Middelburg knows 
Dialogue: 0,0:13:03.97,0:13:06.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about the internet she learned from Jurrien.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:06.23,0:13:27.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:27.83,0:13:30.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>But Jurrien says that none of this feels 
Dialogue: 0,0:13:30.13,0:13:33.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like some community service.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:33.10,0:13:36.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He and Mrs. Middelburg just like hanging out.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:36.47,0:14:11.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:11.73,0:14:13.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>And how do Jurrien's own family 
Dialogue: 0,0:14:13.90,0:14:16.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,feel about him living here at Humanitas?
Dialogue: 0,0:14:16.57,0:14:18.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:18.07,0:14:20.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,His parents have been as surprised 
Dialogue: 0,0:14:20.20,0:14:22.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as he has been to find that Jurrien 
Dialogue: 0,0:14:22.77,0:14:24.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,seems very happy here indeed.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:24.57,0:14:46.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:46.37,0:14:47.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>There is, of course, 
Dialogue: 0,0:14:47.40,0:14:49.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the unavoidable loneliness 
Dialogue: 0,0:14:49.23,0:14:52.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that accompanies dementia.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:52.87,0:14:54.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The dementia ward is equipped 
Dialogue: 0,0:14:54.53,0:14:57.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with everything you could expect.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:57.33,0:14:59.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But it has little of the warmth 
Dialogue: 0,0:14:59.07,0:15:03.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of the rest of the residents.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:03.17,0:15:05.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jordi feels an added responsibility 
Dialogue: 0,0:15:05.93,0:15:07.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to help those suffering dementia.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:08.00,0:15:46.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:15:46.57,0:15:49.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>Lucius is this man’s stage name, 
Dialogue: 0,0:15:49.83,0:15:52.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but I was never given another one, 
Dialogue: 0,0:15:52.37,0:15:55.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I never got the chance to ask.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:55.40,0:15:57.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We didn’t get to talk for very long.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:57.20,0:16:00.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Lucius lost the ability to talk much 
Dialogue: 0,0:16:00.03,0:16:01.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about the here and now.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:01.67,0:16:11.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:16:11.47,0:16:13.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,>>I saw in Lucius immediately 
Dialogue: 0,0:16:13.87,0:16:16.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the kind of kindred spirit, 
Dialogue: 0,0:16:16.50,0:16:19.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it was like a glimpse of a possible future self
Dialogue: 0,0:16:19.93,0:16:24.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,set adrift in my own fading memories.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:24.87,0:16:27.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Having exchanged barely a word with him, 
Dialogue: 0,0:16:27.70,0:16:30.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,meeting Lucius affected me a great deal.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:30.53,0:16:40.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:16:40.40,0:16:42.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The hardest thing about living here, 
Dialogue: 0,0:16:42.87,0:16:45.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,old or young, 
Dialogue: 0,0:16:45.07,0:16:49.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is how often death comes to call.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:49.60,0:16:51.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Some of the seniors are still racked 
Dialogue: 0,0:16:51.87,0:16:54.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with intense longing for lost loved ones.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:54.67,0:17:13.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:17:13.57,0:17:16.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,While many others, like Mrs. Middelburg, 
Dialogue: 0,0:17:16.17,0:17:19.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,seem almost unfazed by the realities of death.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:19.23,0:17:35.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:17:35.70,0:17:38.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A few of the students had never seen death 
Dialogue: 0,0:17:38.27,0:17:41.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,up close before living here.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:41.27,0:17:44.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For them, facing death has been the hardest 
Dialogue: 0,0:17:44.03,0:17:46.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and maybe most valuable lesson 
Dialogue: 0,0:17:46.07,0:17:47.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that Humanitas has taught them.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:47.90,0:18:32.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:18:32.90,0:18:34.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jurrien is about to graduate 
Dialogue: 0,0:18:34.73,0:18:38.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from a degree in urban planning, 
Dialogue: 0,0:18:38.43,0:18:41.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but he is now considering devoting his career 
Dialogue: 0,0:18:41.13,0:18:43.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to old age care instead.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:43.30,0:18:53.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:18:53.10,0:18:54.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No matter which direction 
Dialogue: 0,0:18:54.50,0:18:56.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he chooses from here, 
Dialogue: 0,0:18:56.30,0:18:58.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jurrien won’t forget the importance 
Dialogue: 0,0:18:58.10,0:18:59.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of being a good neighbor, 
Dialogue: 0,0:18:59.70,0:19:03.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like he has been to Joke Van Beek.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:03.67,0:19:04.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That day he told me 
Dialogue: 0,0:19:05.00,0:19:07.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that he had started to see the signs 
Dialogue: 0,0:19:07.10,0:19:09.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of Joke slipping away, 
Dialogue: 0,0:19:09.53,0:19:12.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then only a few weeks later, 
Dialogue: 0,0:19:12.20,0:19:14.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Joke passed on.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:14.37,0:19:16.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I know that Jurrien has missed her 
Dialogue: 0,0:19:16.73,0:19:18.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,since she’s been gone.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:18.13,0:19:24.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:19:24.20,0:19:26.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It took me a litttle while to grab hold 
Dialogue: 0,0:19:26.53,0:19:28.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of what makes this place different 
Dialogue: 0,0:19:28.73,0:19:32.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,than anywhere else I’ve been.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:32.07,0:19:34.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Humanitas hasn’t somehow 
Dialogue: 0,0:19:34.30,0:19:38.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,cut out the hard realities of aging.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:38.03,0:19:41.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It’s just that it lets so much more than that 
Dialogue: 0,0:19:41.47,0:19:43.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,through its front door.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:43.17,0:19:45.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:19:45.73,0:19:46.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As I went to say goodbye 
Dialogue: 0,0:19:46.97,0:19:48.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on the last day of my visit, 
Dialogue: 0,0:19:48.67,0:19:51.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I passed by the weekly wheelchair dance recital.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:51.73,0:19:55.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Clapping and music] 
Dialogue: 0,0:19:55.63,0:19:56.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This was the other moment 
Dialogue: 0,0:19:56.93,0:19:58.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that really stayed with me.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:58.90,0:20:03.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Upbeat Dutch music] 
Dialogue: 0,0:20:03.93,0:20:05.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Again, I could see myself 
Dialogue: 0,0:20:05.47,0:20:09.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,reflected back years on from now, 
Dialogue: 0,0:20:09.23,0:20:11.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and for that moment, 
Dialogue: 0,0:20:11.07,0:20:13.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I really didn’t mind the idea of getting old.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:13.30,0:20:14.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,
Dialogue: 0,0:20:14.13,0:20:24.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Upbeat Dutch music] 
Dialogue: 0,0:20:24.13,0:20:39.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,