1 00:00:16,880 --> 00:00:20,787 Hello~ I don't know why but I feel SO energetic today 2 00:00:20,787 --> 00:00:24,414 Like, I did not even drink coffee but I feel so energetic 3 00:00:24,414 --> 00:00:26,867 I've been a homebody the last two days 4 00:00:26,867 --> 00:00:30,305 and I think right now my social battery has kind of recharged 5 00:00:30,305 --> 00:00:32,403 and I'm feeling like good 6 00:00:32,403 --> 00:00:35,379 But at the same time, I also just want to stay inside 7 00:00:35,379 --> 00:00:40,568 I finished all my work meetings for the day and I think I'm just gonna chill 8 00:00:40,568 --> 00:00:43,450 I don't have plans this whole week and I feel like I should make plans at some point 9 00:00:43,450 --> 00:00:48,706 Otherwise, I know myself and I'm going to stay inside if I don't have any plans 10 00:00:48,706 --> 00:00:50,967 Okay! But we'll worry about that later 11 00:00:50,967 --> 00:00:53,003 Let's try to get some things done 12 00:01:05,317 --> 00:01:09,448 Hello! So, I've just finished eating dinner and it's currently 9:00 p.m 13 00:01:09,448 --> 00:01:11,203 and I really want to do my nails 14 00:01:11,203 --> 00:01:13,728 I honestly feel so gross 15 00:01:13,728 --> 00:01:15,600 Like, they have grown out so much 16 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:16,100 I don't know 17 00:01:16,100 --> 00:01:18,321 Whenever my nails feel gross, I feel gross 18 00:01:18,321 --> 00:01:19,788 And, I hate that feeling 19 00:01:19,788 --> 00:01:23,461 So, I'm going to try to get them done as fast as I can 20 00:01:23,461 --> 00:01:25,866 My goal is to sleep before 1 am 21 00:01:25,866 --> 00:01:28,297 So, let's see if that happens 22 00:01:44,640 --> 00:01:47,246 Hello~ So, I just finished all my work for today 23 00:01:47,246 --> 00:01:50,311 And, I'm about to go and get dinner with one of my girlfriends 24 00:01:50,311 --> 00:01:53,190 We're going to have a little girl's date and go get omakase 25 00:01:53,190 --> 00:01:54,766 And, I'm SO excited 26 00:01:54,766 --> 00:01:58,037 Like, New York genuinely has so many omakase spots 27 00:01:58,037 --> 00:02:05,260 And, ever since I moved here I feel like I've been to more in the past 4 months than I have in my entire life 28 00:02:05,260 --> 00:02:06,662 I'm obsessed right now 29 00:02:06,662 --> 00:02:09,436 So, I'm really excited to go grab dinner with her 30 00:02:09,435 --> 00:02:13,793 I finished doing my hair and my makeup and all I have left is to put on my jewelry 31 00:02:13,793 --> 00:02:15,717 And so, I really wanted to say: 32 00:02:15,717 --> 00:02:18,467 Thank you to Linjer for sponsoring today's video 33 00:02:18,467 --> 00:02:19,782 If you've never heard of Linjer before, 34 00:02:19,782 --> 00:02:23,150 they are a sustainable and hypoallergenic jewelry brand 35 00:02:23,150 --> 00:02:27,130 that offers high-quality and long-lasting jewelry pieces at a fair price 36 00:02:27,130 --> 00:02:29,588 They have so many beautiful and timeless pieces 37 00:02:29,588 --> 00:02:35,067 and offer so many minimalistic designs through their selection of rings, bracelets, necklaces, and more 38 00:02:35,067 --> 00:02:42,350 They are a sustainable brand that uses 100% recycled materials, ethically sourced gemstones, and conflict-free lab grown diamonds 39 00:02:42,350 --> 00:02:48,394 All their products are made to last so they only use fine metals such as sterling silver, solid gold, or gold vermeil 40 00:02:48,394 --> 00:02:54,887 which is sterling silver plated with 22k gold that's 5x thicker than regular plated gold jewelry 41 00:02:54,887 --> 00:02:59,515 And moreover, all their packaging is made with recycled and sustainable materials 42 00:02:59,515 --> 00:03:03,000 So, with each shipment they're able to offset their carbon emissions 43 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:09,921 As someone who really loves to wear jewelry, I try to invest in high-quality pieces and avoid fast fashion jewelry as much as I can 44 00:03:09,921 --> 00:03:14,174 And not only that, but I also really care about the brands of which I'm supporting 45 00:03:14,174 --> 00:03:16,878 And so, the fact that Linjer is a sustainable company 46 00:03:16,878 --> 00:03:21,008 whose goal is to empower individuals through high-quality pieces at a fair price 47 00:03:21,008 --> 00:03:24,001 is something that I really appreciate and can support 48 00:03:24,001 --> 00:03:26,518 Lately, I've been wearing their pieces a lot more 49 00:03:26,518 --> 00:03:29,076 and some of my current favorite pieces are: 50 00:03:29,076 --> 00:03:32,681 1) I've been wanting a tennis bracelet for so long 51 00:03:32,681 --> 00:03:35,089 And, I get so many compliments on this 52 00:03:35,089 --> 00:03:36,550 As well as the rings 53 00:03:36,550 --> 00:03:39,950 I am a big BIG ring person, if you guys did not know 54 00:03:39,950 --> 00:03:41,733 I always love to switch up my rings 55 00:03:41,733 --> 00:03:42,708 Change my rings 56 00:03:42,708 --> 00:03:45,992 These are some of my personal favorites right now 57 00:03:45,992 --> 00:03:49,859 I've been wanting a knuckle/mid-ring for the longest time 58 00:03:49,858 --> 00:03:53,302 And, I think this is so stunning 59 00:03:53,302 --> 00:03:55,875 This here is their white topaz silver ring 60 00:03:55,875 --> 00:03:57,574 and I got in a size four 61 00:03:57,574 --> 00:03:59,036 and it's just so pretty 62 00:03:59,036 --> 00:04:02,759 Here I've stacked their blue topaz ring as well as their open leaf ring 63 00:04:02,759 --> 00:04:05,215 and they're so stunning 64 00:04:05,215 --> 00:04:08,722 All these jewelry pieces are pieces that I wear almost every single day now 65 00:04:08,722 --> 00:04:10,664 And, I love to either wear them on their own 66 00:04:10,664 --> 00:04:13,055 or stack them with some of my other jewelry favorites 67 00:04:13,055 --> 00:04:14,792 that I've been wearing for a long time 68 00:04:14,792 --> 00:04:17,537 And, I get so many compliments on these 69 00:04:17,537 --> 00:04:20,425 I love how simple and minimalistic their designs are 70 00:04:20,425 --> 00:04:22,423 as well as how dainty they are 71 00:04:22,423 --> 00:04:24,000 They just look so pretty 72 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:28,854 And, on top of that, they look the exact same from when I first got them to now 73 00:04:28,854 --> 00:04:30,631 And I've been wearing them so much 74 00:04:30,632 --> 00:04:34,014 So, I am actually obsessed with these 75 00:04:34,013 --> 00:04:36,392 If you guys are interested in any of these pieces 76 00:04:36,392 --> 00:04:40,321 or you're just interested in investing in high-quality jewelry pieces in general 77 00:04:40,321 --> 00:04:43,298 you can go to the link in my description box for more information 78 00:04:43,298 --> 00:04:44,902 as well as a discount code 79 00:04:44,902 --> 00:04:46,811 I hope that you're able to find something that you like 80 00:04:46,811 --> 00:04:50,495 and you feel just as good wearing them as I do when I wear these pieces 81 00:04:50,495 --> 00:04:53,025 I'm ready now to go out to my girl's date 82 00:04:53,025 --> 00:04:55,626 Super excited and I will see you guys there! 83 00:05:17,760 --> 00:05:21,805 I just got a call from my Amazon delivery driver 84 00:05:21,805 --> 00:05:24,709 that my groceries just have been delivered 85 00:05:24,709 --> 00:05:26,885 It's 6:00 in the morning right now 86 00:05:26,885 --> 00:05:29,545 I literally don't know the last time I woke up this early 87 00:05:29,545 --> 00:05:32,117 and I kind of just want to leave my groceries there but I know I shouldn't 88 00:05:32,117 --> 00:05:33,761 So, I need to get up 89 00:05:33,761 --> 00:05:35,414 but I'm so tired 90 00:05:35,415 --> 00:05:36,000 It's okay 91 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:37,351 We'll get up 92 00:05:37,351 --> 00:05:38,295 Get my groceries 93 00:05:50,306 --> 00:05:53,550 Recently I've been really into meal prepping 94 00:05:53,550 --> 00:05:58,026 Like, as a part of my whole trying to be healthier, creating healthier habits, and everything 95 00:05:58,026 --> 00:06:00,478 I've been trying to eat healthier too 96 00:06:00,479 --> 00:06:03,770 Because when I first moved here, I was eating out like every single day 97 00:06:03,770 --> 00:06:06,758 It was fun but I gained a lot of weight 98 00:06:06,758 --> 00:06:10,508 and we're trying to get summer beach bod ready right now 99 00:06:10,508 --> 00:06:12,797 So, I've been trying to eat more at home 100 00:06:12,797 --> 00:06:14,142 Meal prepping more 101 00:06:14,142 --> 00:06:19,264 One of the things I've been kind of obsessed with lately is just cauliflower rice 102 00:06:19,264 --> 00:06:21,674 So, right now I'm meal prepping some of that 103 00:06:21,674 --> 00:06:25,459 Like, there's so many things where it's genuinely so easy to make at home 104 00:06:25,459 --> 00:06:27,744 and you don't need to go out to buy it 105 00:06:27,744 --> 00:06:29,781 Cauliflower rice is one of those things 106 00:06:29,781 --> 00:06:33,200 and I like to just make it and then freeze it 107 00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:37,400 And then, whenever I want to eat some cauliflower rice, 108 00:06:37,400 --> 00:06:42,000 I just toss it in the microwave and everything's all good! 109 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:45,238 Part of creating healthier habits is eating healthier 110 00:06:45,238 --> 00:06:48,736 And I'm trying to eat less inflammatory foods, 111 00:06:48,736 --> 00:06:51,238 more home-cooked meals, 112 00:06:51,238 --> 00:06:53,593 and higher protein 113 00:06:53,593 --> 00:06:57,954 which I didn't realize that I just wasn't getting enough protein 114 00:06:57,954 --> 00:07:01,280 until I started paying attention to my protein intake 115 00:07:01,280 --> 00:07:03,491 And then, I was like "Oh." 116 00:07:03,491 --> 00:07:04,701 "I need to eat more protein." 117 00:07:04,701 --> 00:07:08,394 I think it's so important especially when you're younger to start building healthy habits 118 00:07:08,394 --> 00:07:11,549 Like, working out regularly, eating healthier 119 00:07:11,549 --> 00:07:16,114 So that, 1) you have those habits set in place earlier in your life 120 00:07:16,114 --> 00:07:23,222 and 2) it makes it a lot easier when you're older so you don't have to change your lifestyle dramatically or anything 121 00:08:09,240 --> 00:08:12,624 Hello~ so I just finished with my work meetings for the day 122 00:08:12,624 --> 00:08:14,943 and I am gonna go get ready to go to a cafe 123 00:08:14,943 --> 00:08:17,751 and then later I'm going to grab dinner with one of my friends 124 00:08:17,751 --> 00:08:22,283 One of the biggest pieces of advice that I got when I first moved to New York was: 125 00:08:22,283 --> 00:08:26,692 To be careful about who you decide to make your friends 126 00:08:26,692 --> 00:08:30,197 Every time I asked for advice, this was the number one piece that I got 127 00:08:30,198 --> 00:08:33,389 Before, I just understood it as general life advice, right? 128 00:08:33,389 --> 00:08:34,613 No matter what city you're in 129 00:08:34,613 --> 00:08:36,572 No matter what stage you are in your life 130 00:08:36,572 --> 00:08:39,000 You should be careful with the people that you surround yourself with 131 00:08:39,000 --> 00:08:42,731 But, in the context of living in a big city like New York 132 00:08:42,731 --> 00:08:44,304 It's completely different 133 00:08:44,304 --> 00:08:48,532 Because you're in such a big city, you're bound to meet so many people 134 00:08:48,532 --> 00:08:54,000 who have different personalities, different values, different morals, and different life experiences than you 135 00:08:54,000 --> 00:08:56,314 They might not necessarily be bad people 136 00:08:56,314 --> 00:09:01,767 But, it might just not be the healthiest relationship or friendship that you would want for yourself 137 00:09:01,767 --> 00:09:03,094 But, it might be fun 138 00:09:03,094 --> 00:09:05,116 And that's where I think the problem is 139 00:09:05,116 --> 00:09:09,833 When you're young and you're in a big city and you're meeting so many new people, 140 00:09:09,834 --> 00:09:13,088 it's fun and all these people might be fun 141 00:09:13,088 --> 00:09:14,440 Going out is fun 142 00:09:14,440 --> 00:09:16,271 Doing stupid things is fun 143 00:09:16,271 --> 00:09:18,072 And you might even know it: 144 00:09:18,072 --> 00:09:22,800 That there are things that you're doing that might not be the healthiest for you, but it's fun. 145 00:09:22,800 --> 00:09:26,281 It's so easy to surround yourself with the wrong people, 146 00:09:26,281 --> 00:09:28,324 build the wrong habits, 147 00:09:28,324 --> 00:09:32,900 and spend your time doing things that just aren't productive or healthy for you 148 00:09:32,900 --> 00:09:37,174 Another thing that I heard a lot when I first moved here was: 149 00:09:37,174 --> 00:09:38,901 A lot of people would tell me: 150 00:09:38,901 --> 00:09:41,670 "Mia, I wonder what kind of person you'll be in a year from now." 151 00:09:41,671 --> 00:09:45,772 Back then, I was honestly confused every time I heard that because 152 00:09:45,772 --> 00:09:50,906 I felt like the Mia of 2024 was not all that different from the Mia of 2023 153 00:09:50,906 --> 00:09:52,575 But, now that I've been here for four months, 154 00:09:52,575 --> 00:10:00,000 I can confidently say that I feel so different than the person that I was four months ago from now 155 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:01,148 I've learned so many things 156 00:10:01,148 --> 00:10:06,805 Experienced so many things that I would not have experienced had I stayed in my hometown 157 00:10:06,805 --> 00:10:13,111 And, I think it's because when you move to a big city, it really tests your character, your values, and your self-esteem 158 00:10:13,111 --> 00:10:21,000 You're no longer held back by certain beliefs that people had about you or people who have known you for 10+ years 159 00:10:21,000 --> 00:10:23,401 But the thing is that's like a double-edged sword 160 00:10:23,401 --> 00:10:25,098 You can be whoever you want to be 161 00:10:25,098 --> 00:10:31,497 But, at the same time, you don't have the people around you who truly have been there for you for everything 162 00:10:31,497 --> 00:10:33,184 and truly want the best for you 163 00:10:33,184 --> 00:10:39,452 And so, it's really easy to fall into temptation and be influenced by the wrong people 164 00:10:39,452 --> 00:10:44,126 And, at that point, you genuinely really only have yourself to rely on and fully trust 165 00:10:44,126 --> 00:10:45,826 I'm rambling a lot right now 166 00:10:45,826 --> 00:10:47,916 But, I think my point in all of this is that 167 00:10:47,916 --> 00:10:52,258 Now that I've lived here longer, I'm trying to be more conscientious 168 00:10:52,258 --> 00:10:56,210 of the people that I'm spending time with and giving my energy to 169 00:10:56,210 --> 00:10:59,639 And, I'm really just starting to enjoy the comfort of my own company 170 00:10:59,639 --> 00:11:02,034 And, being alone because 171 00:11:02,034 --> 00:11:07,133 1) It really helps me stay grounded to the kind of person that I am 172 00:11:07,133 --> 00:11:10,997 and I want to become and reflect on the goals that I want for the future 173 00:11:10,997 --> 00:11:14,203 and if the decisions that I'm making now will help that or not 174 00:11:14,203 --> 00:11:18,090 But, it also really helps me reflect on the relationships that I'm building 175 00:11:18,090 --> 00:11:20,477 and the people that I'm spending time around 176 00:11:20,477 --> 00:11:27,415 because I fully 100% believe you are the sum of the top five people that you spend your time with 177 00:11:27,415 --> 00:11:29,844 You are who you spend time around 178 00:11:29,844 --> 00:11:33,864 Anyways, that was such a ramble and I need to do my makeup 179 00:11:33,864 --> 00:11:38,161 So, let's focus on that and then head out to the cafe! 180 00:12:01,667 --> 00:12:05,638 Currently on my way to dinner plans 181 00:12:05,638 --> 00:12:08,664 It's kind of chilly today 182 00:12:13,045 --> 00:12:14,350 Good morning~ 183 00:12:14,350 --> 00:12:16,308 I need to start getting more vitamin D 184 00:12:16,308 --> 00:12:18,562 I keep being like cooped up in my place 185 00:12:18,562 --> 00:12:19,670 Being a homebody 186 00:12:19,670 --> 00:12:23,797 And so, now dragging myself out to go to a cafe 187 00:12:23,797 --> 00:12:27,800 By forcing myself to go to a cafe not only am I SO much more productive 188 00:12:27,800 --> 00:12:31,294 But, I'm actually exploring the city that I moved here to be at 189 00:12:31,294 --> 00:12:35,102 So! Let's try to get a lot of work done today 190 00:12:35,103 --> 00:12:37,612 because I need to be productive 191 00:13:29,081 --> 00:13:30,216 Hello~ 192 00:13:30,216 --> 00:13:33,371 So, I just finished getting off of a FaceTime call with my parents 193 00:13:33,371 --> 00:13:38,375 To be honest, I think in the past week I've probably FaceTimed my parents like four times 194 00:13:38,375 --> 00:13:42,112 because... I think I'm starting to get homesick 195 00:13:42,112 --> 00:13:45,536 I've been knowing I was starting to get homesick a couple weeks back 196 00:13:45,536 --> 00:13:48,267 when I was just craving Vietnamese food 197 00:13:48,267 --> 00:13:52,596 I was just constantly looking up restaurants and then trying recipes out 198 00:13:52,596 --> 00:13:57,412 I even asked my parents to start shipping me food over because I just missed it so much 199 00:13:57,412 --> 00:14:00,903 And now, I've been like calling my parents like every 2-3 days 200 00:14:00,903 --> 00:14:03,400 It's not necessarily that I want to move back home 201 00:14:03,400 --> 00:14:09,099 But, I think in some ways the novelty of having moved somewhere new is starting to finally wear off 202 00:14:09,099 --> 00:14:12,979 When I first moved here, I was doing the absolute most 203 00:14:12,979 --> 00:14:15,822 Like, I was going out every single day 204 00:14:15,822 --> 00:14:17,032 Trying new restaurants 205 00:14:17,032 --> 00:14:18,388 Exploring new cities 206 00:14:18,388 --> 00:14:19,298 Going to different shops 207 00:14:19,298 --> 00:14:20,444 Meeting new people 208 00:14:20,444 --> 00:14:23,231 And, it was just like non-stop like: "Go go go" for me 209 00:14:23,231 --> 00:14:28,519 Eventually, I started getting tired and I started wanting to slow things down, stay inside more 210 00:14:28,519 --> 00:14:34,119 And, I also partially realized that it was just not sustainable for me 211 00:14:34,119 --> 00:14:36,241 Like, the goals that I want to achieve 212 00:14:36,241 --> 00:14:39,918 and how I want to improve myself over the course of the next year 213 00:14:39,918 --> 00:14:43,659 So, while it was really fun it was just a lot to handle 214 00:14:43,659 --> 00:14:46,531 and it was a nice way to get to know the city 215 00:14:46,531 --> 00:14:51,218 But, I think I'm at the point where I really want to focus that energy back on myself 216 00:14:51,218 --> 00:14:57,548 and focus on my career, making myself a better person, and just the friendships that I have right now 217 00:14:57,548 --> 00:14:59,493 Life is slowing down for me for sure 218 00:14:59,493 --> 00:15:01,934 and you know the homesickness is coming in 219 00:15:01,934 --> 00:15:06,799 But, over the next couple of weeks, I have a lot of exciting things coming 220 00:15:06,799 --> 00:15:12,130 This is like a little sliver of a break that I'm going to have before things really pick up again 221 00:15:12,130 --> 00:15:13,979 So, I'm taking it to rest a little bit 222 00:15:13,979 --> 00:15:15,266 You know, develop myself 223 00:15:15,266 --> 00:15:18,299 Invest that time and energy back into myself 224 00:15:18,299 --> 00:15:21,466 After this week, I'm just very happy with where I'm currently at 225 00:15:21,467 --> 00:15:25,457 and I want to continue building this routine and this lifestyle for myself here 226 00:15:25,457 --> 00:15:27,212 I hope you guys enjoyed this video 227 00:15:27,212 --> 00:15:32,580 And again, if you're interested in Linjer and investing in high-quality jewelry pieces, 228 00:15:32,580 --> 00:15:35,830 then you can go to the link in my description box for a special offer 229 00:15:35,830 --> 00:15:37,182 and more information 230 00:15:37,182 --> 00:15:39,775 And other than that, I wish you guys all the best 231 00:15:39,775 --> 00:15:41,910 And, see you in my next video! 232 00:15:41,910 --> 00:15:43,059 Bye~