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I had a question about sexual appetite. I think for men
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it's almost like compulsive nature that we have adopted
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and I am wondering whether or not if one becomes more spiritual
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their sexual appetite also becomes not so much a compulsive appetite.
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See....every aspect of your life,
a human being is capable of making it conscious.
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That includes sexuality.
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You can make that also into a conscious process.
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So once it's conscious process
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It is no more something
which decides the course of your life.
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It is not something that is
compulsively working within you.
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It is something that you decide.
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That's how human life should be. Isn't it?
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Everything you decide.
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You are not pushed or pulled into anything .
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And because it's compulsive,
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how many varieties of trouble people have gotten into.
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Isn't it?
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If it was a conscious process
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they would know when, where, how, what, isn't it?
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Just see the kind of amount of
abuse sexual abuse that is happening.
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You are not even leaving infants.
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That's not normal, isn't it?
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That's not even human, that's not even animal -
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it's sub animal, isn't it?
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because it's such a compulsive force.
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And yes, it's most terrible for the child,
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but my sympathy is also for the man.
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How degenerated he must be.
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How compulsive he must be to do something like that.
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That a human being can reduce himself to that level.
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How compulsive, the force it should be
within himself to do such a thing. Isn't it?
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So that's simply because no conscious process has been brought forth into life.
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If only, if people did something consciously at least for 10 minutes a day,
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you would see all these things
would go down dramatically.
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Dramatically!
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They are not starved of sex,
it is not because sex is not available for them.
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It is because it's such a compulsive force,
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that they have to do something like this, isn't it?
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And it's becoming a big thing.
Not just in one place - worldwide.
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It is becoming such a big thing.
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It is not that it's not been in the past,
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It's probably more coming out now than ever before.
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But it's always been like this.
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People are clothed in human body but living like absolute animals within themselves.
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Doing things that even an animal would hesitate to do.
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Isn't it?
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Even an animal would hesitate to do certain things
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that human beings are doing.
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So, It has to become a conscious process
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It need not be a drive.
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It need not be a compulsive drive.
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It can be a conscious process.
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Once it's conscious, how much of what
you need in your life can be decided by you.
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Whether something is needed or not,
also can be decided by you. Isn't it?