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- We're sitting here together
with Rune, Snorre and Eivind.
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And you all had the
privilege of being invested in,
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and you have invested in
others and in each other actually.
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You were a rock
and roll musician.
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-Yeah, I was like a Christian who
called myself a Christian,
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but I didn't live the Christian life.
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And when Kaizers
Orchestra started moving on
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and became very fast one
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of the biggest bands in Norway,
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it took my life actually
in the wrong direction
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regarding my faith.
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One of the guys in the
band, he said: "Rune
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you're such a cool Christian
because you are like us.
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You act like us". It was really, wow.
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What is it to be a Christian?
I'm not living that.
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I have a brother. He invited
me to Kristent Fellesskap in Bergen,
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and that was the first time
I met Knut. He was preaching
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I didn't know him. I just
heard him a couple of times.
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And he pointed me out in
the crowd of about 500 people.
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And he said: "I have some words to you.
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You are the drummer in Kaizers Orchestra.
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I don't remember your name,
but please come up here.
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God has placed you in this band.
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You have been praying about this,
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but from now on you'll
start serving the Lord."
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Right after this
gathering, I was baptized,
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and then the new life started.
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- Wow. How was this relationship with Knut?
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- After this Knut and Elisabeth
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moved to Oslo. I lived in Oslo.
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- And you were on tour?
-Yeah.
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-And you didn't come to
Sunday morning meetings?
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- No, I was in a
church that had meetings,
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but I was very seldom there
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because we were traveling all the time.
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So usually I had
Mondays and Tuesdays off
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and Knut said: "You can come
to me when you have time".
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He started sharing life,
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and he invested his time in me.
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I think he saw that I was
very different from him.
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So he didn't try to invest
in me to become like him,
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but more like to become
what God had for me.
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He really helped me to focus
on my calling.
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-You are in the same family actually.
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-He married your sister?
-Yes, I took your sister
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- But it's kind of the same story
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because you played drums on Sundays
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and in the weekends and I played
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football.
- He was a professional football player.
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- So I couldn't go to church.
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So I'm happy that I met
Rune and to see the change
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in your life and to actually,
when we were jogging
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or drinking coffee, you
could talk about Jesus.
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- And also, I remember
when I first met you,
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you were very young.
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15, 16? - Probably.
- And you were very shy. -Yeah
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- It was not easy to find the connection.
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I felt after I met you,
I need to know Snorre,
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and God put a heart
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for Snorre into me.
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- So, you saw something in this shy boy.
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- Yeah, because it was
easy to see something there
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'Cause he was so focused.
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The football thing was 95% of
his life. It was everything.
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He was playing football,
thinking football,
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and you know, it was like this.
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- 5% girls or?
- The rest was girls.
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- Yeah. Maybe 1% God!
- Okay.
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- There was some longing there.
I could see the Lord.
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- It was longing.
- I could see the longing,
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and I remember we started playing
cards (Cardgame called "Idiot")
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And there
we connected by playing cards.
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When we were playing
cards, it became competition.
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Someone needs to win.
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And that really, that's our
language, you know?
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- We still have that.
- We still have.
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- And he gets angry with me.
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- So we could talk while playing cards,
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and then the next thing was jogging.
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And I tried to find the arenas
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where we could connect.
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We had some good talks
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and we started building
relationship.
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- So, how did this change your life, Snorre?
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- He always talked
about Jesus and
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the way we can be Christians.
The best life with God
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is when you actually
decide to go all the way
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and not hold back, because then
you get the joy, the peace.
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And it was easy for me
as well to always ask Rune for
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things I wondered
about, girls or football or
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how to do school.
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And we could, you know,
have this friendship.
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He was really important for me.
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- But I really, I remember
the great change also.
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I said you were shy.
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- Yeah.
- But really, you totally changed.
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I remember also when we had
some of those family gatherings
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where you decided "I will,
during this dinner,
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I will stand up and I will share the
gospel to the whole family."
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And you led many of
your friends to Jesus
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- And one of them is here.
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- Yes.
- And you also started jogging.
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So I think this
is the way to win friends!
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But what happened?
Have you known each other
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for a long time?
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- Several years now, yeah.
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We got to know each other seven
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years ago, I think,
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through his wife, which I grew up with
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and Snorre really invested in me.
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I was 25 kilos heavier and
didn't have too many friends
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and was focused on
working, had a longing
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for something else,
but had tried religion,
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had tried being a Christian,
going to meetings,
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but it didn't feel good.
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It didn't feel right.
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So he started investing
in friendship.
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And that was different
from a lot of others who
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are always trying to like change you.
You have to become this and this
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and do this and that,
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and then you will become a great Christian
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or great something else.
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That was really different
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because he started focusing
on just connecting.
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We talked about finance,
investments, business,
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talked about our jobs and training.
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We ran our, my first marathon,
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half marathon together.
Before I met Snorre
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I couldn't jog for five kilometers.
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So yes, a lot of things
changed on the physical part,
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but also on my character
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and my relationship with God as well.
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- So how do you remember
this Snorre? The beginning.
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- I thought, hmm, I
want to give him this life,
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but I also want to be his friend
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because I think that's
a really good start,
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to just care for people.
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And I think I decided
at that place
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that I want to invest
and to give my life
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and at least to be a friend.
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- And I probably wasn't the
most easy person to change
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because I was really good at hiding, like
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what was happening on the inside.
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And I remember I've
always been a good chameleon,
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changing to the environment.
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When Snorre said something, I
was like: "Yeah, that's nice.
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I know the Bible.
I have heard the stories."
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So I think Snorre
had a hard time trying
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to like help me.
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- It was not easy!
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It was sometimes...
- It was not easy helping you either.
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- It's only you Rune.
- I think if Knut was here,
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I think he will still
say it is not easy.
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- But this is really important
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because you... What made you open up
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or become honest and real
about where you were at?
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- I think a lot of it was time.
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It takes, sometimes it
takes time to build trust.
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For me it was unnatural to open
up to someone I didn't know.
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In a lot of ways it was
unnatural to open up to anybody,
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because I was so used to changing.
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I lived a double life during all my youth.
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I was really Christian when I came home
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and was really not
Christian when I went out.
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What changed was Snorre. He
lived a transparent life.
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He shared things,
difficulties with his wife
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when they started dating.
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I actually got to know
him before he was married.
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And I heard a lot of the
things that were going on,
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and for me it was
great to see that he opened up
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and he had faith in God, and he prayed,
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and he, there were so many
things that I saw that
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with time started to build trust
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and started to change me as well.
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- What do you think about this when you
hear that your struggles helped him?
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- It's nice to hear that I
actually was open with my life,
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and that you could see the
principles and values that I had.
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- And I think one
important part as well is
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that there were a lot
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of people, including
Snorre and Rune, who prayed.
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And I think that that's
probably the main reason
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that something started to change as well
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because it's not only words
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and how you live, it's...
He invested time in praying,
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and I know my sister did
the same and my grandmother
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and so many people were in
the background praying,
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and wanting some change in my life.
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- You've seen answers to prayer in
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so many areas of your life.
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And you received
help also from Knut in
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not just to be a good Christian,
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but to be a good musician,
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a good leader, a father, a husband.
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And this is what you...
-Yes.
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he invested in me
in so many areas of life.
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- So what have you
received from this training?
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How has your life changed?
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- In many ways.
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One example is when I started
dating my wife, Kristine.
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We had some troubles in the start.
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So to have Rune, but also
other people to help us in
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actually building a good relationship
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because that can be hard,
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was really important.
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- Live transparent and
ask for help.
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So, we also saw the same thing, like
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if you try to fix everything yourself,
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and I think that's very
common in today's society
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because we're so individualistic.
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So you're supposed to be a
"one person hero", fixing everything.
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And one of the things I learned is
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that you're not supposed
to fix everything.
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There are so many people who are
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better than you in some areas.
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And then you should ask them
for help in those areas.
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That's what I saw in Snorre as well,
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and asked for help.
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- And you are living
these principles
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that you have learned from the Bible?
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- Every day.
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I think this also works great
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for when you are leading others.
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There are a lot of principles
in the Bible that say
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how you should lead, being a
servant leader for example,
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pray for people,
care for people.
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And this, I remember the
first time being responsible
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for nine young IT
developers who were supposed
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to start their career.
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And I remember praying
for each one of them.
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Every time I was talking to
them, I was preparing by praying
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for them first for the
conversation to go well,
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to understand their
desires and their goals
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and then invest in them.
-Wow!
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-They are so privileged
to have a boss like you!
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It really sounds like
all of you have seen,
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you've observed some attractive
lives that make you think: "OK,
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I wanna be like,
the person I see".
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- Absolutely.
- That you saw something in Rune
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- I saw a lot of faith
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in business or Kaizers, in his life,
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and I also wanted to be
a faith person.
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- Yeah. And you have become
a faith person.
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- I think so, yeah.
- Now you've started your own business
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and you have five employees,
in two years
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and you, you just sold
out 56 concerts
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in 15 minutes?
- Yes.
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- We didn't believe it would
go so fast, be so good...
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More than we prayed for.
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And this is so interesting
life, living with God,
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and when you asked about the
change after meeting Knut
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and got trained, I believed I
would be stuck in religion
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and in my own strength, but this
living the life in faith,
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living according to the purpose, living
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to see the kingdom come is
so much more interesting!
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And this life we
want to pass on.
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- That's a fun life.