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we're sitting here together with Runa SN
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and I yes and you've all had the
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privilege of being invested in and you
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have invested in others and in each
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other actually you were a rock and roll
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musician yeah I was like um a Christian
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who called myself a Christian but I
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didn't live the Christian Life and uh
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when the Kaiser orchest start moving on
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and became um very fast one of the
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biggest band in the Norway it took my
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life in actually in the wrong direction
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regarding my faith one of the guys in
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the band he said Runa you're such a cool
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Christian because you are like us you
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act like us it was really wow what is it
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to be a Christian I'm not living that I
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have a brother so he invited me to
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kisten fellow COPE in Bergen and that
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was the first time I met KES he was
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preaching I didn't know him I just heard
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him a couple of times and he pointed me
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out in the crowd about 500 people me
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said I have some word to you you are the
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drummer and C Orchestra I don't remember
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your name but please come up here God
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has placed you in this band You' have
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been praying about this but from now on
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you will start serving the lord right
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after this Gathering I was baptized and
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then the new life started wow how was
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this relationship with knut after this
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knut and elisab moved to Oso I lived in
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Oso and you were on tour yeah and you
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didn't come to Sun
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morning meetings no I I I was in a
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church that had meetings but I wasn't
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very seldom there because we were
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traveling all the time so I had uh
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usually I had Mondays and Tuesdays off
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and and knud said uh you can come to me
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uh when you have time he starts sharing
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life and he invested his time in me I
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think he saw that I was very different
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from him so he didn't try to invest in
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me to become like him
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but more like to become what God had for
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me he really helped me to focus on on my
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calling you're in in the same family
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actually he married your sister yeah
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yeah I took sister but it's kind of the
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same story because you played drums on
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the Sundays and the weekends and I
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played football s professional football
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player so I I couldn't go to the church
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so I'm happy that I met Runa and to see
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their change in your life and to
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actually when we were jogging or
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drinking coffee you could talk about
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Jesus it was I remember when I first met
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you you were very young 15 16 probably
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15 and uh you were very shy was EAS to
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to find the the connection I thought um
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after I met you I need to know snowa and
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God put a heart for snow into into me so
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you saw something in this shy boy yeah I
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saw because it was easy to see something
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because he was so focused yeah the
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football thing was 95% of his life it
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was everything he was playing football
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thinking football and and you know it
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was like this 5% girls or the rest was
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girls yes maybe 1% gu
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okay there were some longing there I
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could see the long I could see the
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longing and and I remember we start
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playing cards idiot okay and and there
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we connected by playing cards and in
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when we were playing card it became
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competition someone need to win and that
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really that's our language you know we
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still have that we still have and he
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gets angry on me so we could talk while
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playing cards and the next thing was
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jogging yeah and and i t to find the the
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Arenas where we could connect then we
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had some good talks and we we start
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building relationships so how how did
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this uh change your life not he always
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talked about Jesus and uh yeah the way
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we can be Christians the best life with
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God is when you actually decide to go
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all the way and not hold back because
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then you get the joy the peace and and
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it was easy for me as well to always ask
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for yeah things I wondered wondered
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about girls or football or yeah how to
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do school and we could you know have
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this friendship it was really important
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for me but I I I really I remember the
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the great change also why I said you
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were shy but you really you totally
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change I remember also when we had some
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those family gatherings where you
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decided I will during this dinner yeah I
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will stand up and they will share the
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gospel to the whole family and you you
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led many of your friends to Jesus and
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one of them are is here
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yeah and you also started jogging so I
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think this is the way way friend but
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what happened you have you known each
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other for for a long time several years
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now yeah uh we got to know each other
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for seven seven years ago I think yeah
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uh three is life which I grew up in and
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uh SN really invested in me I was 25
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kilo heavier and didn't have too many
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friends and was focused on working uh
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had a longing for something else uh but
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had tried religion had tried being
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Christian going to meetings but it
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didn't feel good it didn't feel right uh
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so he started investing in in friendship
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and and that was different from a lot of
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others who are always trying to like
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change if you have to become this and
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this and do this and that and then you
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will become a great Christian or great
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something else that was really different
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because he started focusing on uh just
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connecting we talked about Finance
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Investments business talked about our
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jobs and training we ran our my first
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marath half marathon together uh before
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met I couldn't Dr for 5 kilom so H yes a
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lot of things changed on the physical
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part but also on my character and and my
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relationship with God as well how do you
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remember this n this the beginning I
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thought h i I want to give him this life
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and but I also want to be his friend
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because I think that's a really good
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start to to just care for people and I I
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think I decided at uh that place that I
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want to invest and to to give my life
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and at least to be a friend and I
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probably wasn't the most easy person to
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to change because I was really good at
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hiding like what was happening on the
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inside and I I remember I've always been
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a good chameleon changing to the
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environment when [ __ ] said something I
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was like yeah yeah that's nice I know
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the Bible I have eror
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so I think SN had a hard time trying to
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like help me so I it was not easy it was
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it was it was not easy helping you
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either I believe that it's only
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you here I think he will still say it's
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not easy but but but this is really
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important because you you what made you
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open up or become
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honest and real about where you were at
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I think a lot of it was time it takes
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sometimes it takes time to to build
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trust uh for me it was unnatural to open
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up to someone I didn't know for a lot of
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ways it was uh unnatural to open to
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anybody because I was so used to
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changing I lived a double life during my
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old youth I was really Christian when I
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came home and was really not Christian
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when I was went out what changed was uh
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[ __ ] he lived a transparent life he
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shared things difficulties with his wife
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when they when they was uh uh started to
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dating I actually got to know him before
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he was married and I heard a lot of the
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things that was going on and and for me
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it was it was great to see he open open
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up and he had faith in God and he prayed
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and he there were so many things that
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that I saw that with time started to
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build trust and started to change me as
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well what do you think about this when
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you hear that your struggles helped him
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it's nice to hear that I actually was
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open with my life and that you could see
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the principles and values that I had and
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I think one important part as well is is
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there was a lot of people including SN
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and who prayed and I think that that's
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probably the main reason that something
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started to change as well because it's
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not only words and and how you live it's
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it's he invested time in praying and I
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know my sister did the same and
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grandmother and so many people was in
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the background praying and and wanting
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some some change in my life you've seen
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ansers to prayer in In so many areas of
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your life and you you received help also
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from Clon not not just to be a good
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Christian but to be a good musician
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leader a father a husband and this is
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what you yes and invested in me in so
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many areas of life so what have you
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received from this training what how has
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your life changed in many ways the one
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example is when I started dated my wife
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Christina uh we had some troubles in the
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start so to have but also other people
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to help us in actually building a good
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relationship because that can be hard um
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was uh really important yeah live
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transparent and for help so we we also
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saw the same thing like uh if you try to
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fix everything yourself and I think
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that's very common in today's society
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because we're so
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individualistic so so you're supposed to
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be a one person hereo fixing everything
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and one of the things I learned is that
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you're not supposed to fix everything
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there's so many people who are better
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than you in some areas and then you
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should ask them for help in those
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areas that what that's what I saw in s
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as well and ask for help and you are
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living these principles that you have
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learned from the Bible every day I think
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this also works great for when you are
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leading others there's a lot of
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principles in the Bible that says how
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you should lead being a servant leader
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for example uh pray for people care
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people yeah and this I I remember first
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time being responsible for for nine
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young it developers who were supposed to
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start their career and I I remember
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praying for each one of them every time
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I was uh talking to them I Was preparing
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by praying for them first for the
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conversation to to go well to understand
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their desires and their goals and then
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invest in them wow so yeah they are so
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privileged to have a boss like you it it
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really sounds like all of you have seen
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you've observed some attractive lives
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that you think okay I want to I want to
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be like uh like the person I see
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absolutely that you saw something in run
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and I was I saw a lot of faith yeah in
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business or kaish in his life and I also
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wanted to be a faith person yeah yeah
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and you have become a fa Faith person
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yeah I think so yeah now now you started
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your own business and you have five
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employees in in five in three years and
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you you just sold out 56 concerts yeah
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in 15 minutes yes we didn't believe it
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would go so fast and be so good more
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than we prayed for and this is so
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interesting life living with God and and
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when you said the change after meeting
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new and get trained I believe I will be
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stuck in religion
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and My Own Strength but this living life
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in faith living according to the purpose
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living to see the Kingdom Come is so
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much more interesting and and this life
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we we want to pass yeah and that's a fun
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life