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[speaking Pashtu]
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Why is it called Kabli Pulao
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It’s a royal dish sir.
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It was cooked for the kings earlier.
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In the palace of Kabul.
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When the kingdom ended then
it also came to poor people like us.
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Make another plate.
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Sure sir.
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Here you go sir.
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With Allah’s will after the morning prayer
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Tashkeel will go to Tayyiba Mosque.
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With Allah’s will.
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With Allah’s will.
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And will give the invites.
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And after that
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will go to the remaining mosques.
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So I will meet you people
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with Allah’s will in the morning prayer.
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With Allah’s will.
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I seek your permission.
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I want to make an announcement.
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Thanks.
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In the name of Allah.
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Greetings.
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Greetings.
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My name is Abdullah.
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I belong to the city of Kandos
of Afghanistan.
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And I have migrated to Mardan
along with my family.
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I have a widow sister with me too.
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Her husband was martyred in a bomb blast.
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Allah is The Greatest!
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The wedding of a widow
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as per the sharia’s of our Messenger (PBUH)
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is my responsibility.
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I am a poor traveler.
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I don’t belong to any nation or tribe.
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Neither do I have any friend
nor any acquaintance.
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That is why…
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My dear people
I make a request to you all.
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And I hope
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that a person of Allah will come
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and help me
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fulfill this responsibility of mine respectfully.
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Thanks.
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It’s the grace of Allah
Mr. Haji Mushtaq
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that we are respectfully living
in our houses with privacy.
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Seeing these people we should offer
the prayer of gratefulness.
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We are not in a good state either.
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May Allah just bless us.
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You are right in saying this.
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Hey did it work
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No I can’t do it.
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Why
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Are you worried to bear
the expenses of a woman
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Hey when you are getting
the food from one house
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we will make you bear
the responsibility of two houses.
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You just initiate.
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Sir it is not about the expenses.
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Allah has blessed you
with so much wealth.
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That if you feel like it
you can even buy your own hotel.
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Then why do live in
the mosque like poor people
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Nether you have a wife
nor do you have any children.
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Nor do you have any friends.
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Then for what are you saving the money
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Where is the money Maqbool Khan
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I distributed all.
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Where did you distribute it
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Where did you distribute it Haji Sb.
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I handed over the business to my brother.
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And gave the two sisters their share.
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Now it’s just Allah.
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I am out in His path.
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Don’t do this Haji Sb.
Don’t do this.
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You don’t need the business.
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But businesses do need people like you.
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No one in this market knows
better about clothes than you do.
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I bet.
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No person can wear glasses
and go to that extent
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where you can even tell with your eyes closed
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that what the quality and the price of the cloth is.
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You didn’t cross that other path Maqbool Khan.
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The path that I crossed.
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I was 10 years old
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when my father passed away.
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Mother started stitching clothes
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so I started to bring clothes for her.
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I spent my childhood
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picking up the leftovers of the clothes.
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Lawn
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Silk
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Cotton
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Khadar
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Jute
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Velvet Linen…
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These were my friends and my toys.
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I used to play with these.
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That is why
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I can recognize them with my eyes closed.
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Hey wow. Amazing.
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Clap dude.
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Hey Wow wow wow.
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What happened
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Is it all sold out this early in the morning
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I took an off day today Haji Sb.
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Have a seat.
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Hey you shouldn’t take a day off in the business.
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When the shop is closed customers go away.
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My sister cooks Pulao.
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Last night my mother fell really ill.
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She is busy being at her service.
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Hmm.
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What happened
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Did you find any proposal for her
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Yes
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Did anyone get ready to marry her
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Can I say one thing
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I have also fulfilled the responsibility of two sisters of mine.
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I didn’t take a single penny from anyone.
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Infact I paid.
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Whatever my status was.
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No one has any control over the compulsion and disability Haji Sb.
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What compulsion
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One should not ask for money for the proposal.
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It is against the sharia’h.
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You can even ask Molvi Sb. if you want to.
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I know that.
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It’s not only against the religion
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rather against my honor too.
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I know that.
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What is the compulsion as such
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That it even surpassed the religion as well as the honor
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Come in Haji Sb. Come in.
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Get covered.
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Come in Haji Sb. Come.
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Come into my house.
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Come come.
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Have a seat.
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He is Gulraiz. My brother.
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Greetings.
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Greetings.
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He was like a haspa.
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He used to walk like flying in the air.
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Haspa
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A horse.
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Oh a horse.
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No one could compete against him.
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When he used to play football
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no one could even dare taking the football back from him.
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Maradona the footballer.
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Do you know him
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Yes I used to watch football a lot.
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I know.
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Not Gulraiz. Rather Maradona.
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When he used to play
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the whole neighbourhood used to call him Maradona.
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Maradona Oh Maradona
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Then our horse caught an evil eye.
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He went for hunting with friends.
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Earlier our area was safe and secure.
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Now the enemies are on fire everywhere.
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The explosive mines…
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Do you know
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Hmm.
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His foot got into the explosive mine.
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This was his state then.
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Our Maradona died Haji Sb.
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He died.
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Now he is buried in this chair.
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I neither have the capacity nor the courage to do more than that.
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But my sister desires
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to see her brother stand on his feet again
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and that he plays football again.
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I have inquired about it.
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For him to walk
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it would take approximately the same amount
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means
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two lacs.
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My sister has compelled me so much.
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She compelled me so much Haji Sb.
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This is not my demand
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rather my sister’s.
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You are being emotional for no reason.
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They have created new ways to beg.
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Just to trap innocent people like you.
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They are responsible for their actions.
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I know about my intention.
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I am so sad Haji Sb.
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You know really well about the clothes.
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But you know nothing about the humans.
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A person should only know about himself.
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That is enough for him.
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Haji Sb.
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Let me talk once.
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Let me be satisfied too.
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This is not a small amount.
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If I was supposed to fix the proposal against this amount
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then I would have bothered you for sure.
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In order to make charity
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you should only be satisfied that your money is Halal.
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Okay.
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It’s your money.
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As you wish.
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This is your money.
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Thanks a lot.
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Now I owe you three lacs.
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That you can deliver as per your convenience.
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Okay
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As you say.
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Thank you so much Haji Sb.
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Thanks a lot.
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Thanks a lot.
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I will be grateful to you all my life.
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Atleast count it.
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One shouldn’t count the charity Haji Sb.
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Whatever you get.
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In the name of Allah.
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This is not charity Abdullah.
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That woman is my entrustment in your house now.
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If you will not take care of that
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then you will have to give the answer on the day of judgement.
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Let’s go.
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Haj Sb.
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You did give him the money
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now if you will let me marry that girl then…
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there will be a solution to my disability as well Haji Sb.
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She will not get married Hafiz Sb.
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She will marry no one.
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But she has been making an announcement in the mosque Haji Sb.
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And you are saying that…
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She will not marry
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She was going to get sacrificed
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for the disability of her brother.
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I talked about you there because
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so that she will not get herself sacrificed further.
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But
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your guess can be wrong too Haji Sb.
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Please talk as
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I am asking you to just once.
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A widow mother has raised me
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Hafiz Sb.
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My guess can’t be wrong.
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The irony here is that
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some women
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bury themselves along with their husbands.
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And no one is there to ask them.
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She is also among those women.
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Leave that mobile.
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Get up and feed the pigeons. They have been hungry since morning.
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I won’t wear the ring if father wouldn’t be here.
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I am telling you mother.
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I will wear the ring from elder father only.
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Don’t tell me later on that I started a fight.
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Filmy.
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Very filmy.
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Really
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Then my name wouldn’t be Ayesha if I won’t say no.
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You will let the rest of the customs go on right
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Yes you can have your music and dance.
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No no. There won’t be any music or dance.
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Why Is there any funeral
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Hey as I said. It won’t.
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Who are you to ask this
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Elder father is on a trip. He is not dead yet.
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Are you so fond of having your dance videos on the internet
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Then don’t bring your useless friends.
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No video will be leaked.
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One minute. One minute. One minute.
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Which friend of mine came to sister Salma’s wedding Tell me
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Where did her videos leak
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Whole world saw sister Bubbly’s dance.
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You just speak nonsense.
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There will be some dance and music Yasir.
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You can’t stop me.
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I will break your legs.
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Don’t show off your terror on me. I am not afraid of you.
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Mother Explain it to her.
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She will be beaten off by me for no reason.
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And Ayesha is absolutely right mother.
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Elder father must attend the event.
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Otherwise this son of yours will become our boss.
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Ouch!
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What happened
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Mother
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Here you go. It’s the end of the discussion.
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You broke the finger in which she had to wear the ring.
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Shut up you.
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Nothing happened. She is saved. It’s fine.
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I asked you to apply nail polish to her.
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And you started applying to yourself
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I won’t wear the ring if father wouldn’t be there.
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Argue about this to your father.
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I am already so tired.
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Maid is on leaves.
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I paid her for clothes and everything.
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Now when she had to work she made excuses of being sick.
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Oh my mother. Listen to me.
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I just told you.
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Then don’t say I didn’t tell you.
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Try to understand what I am saying.
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There are so many people.
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We are all travelling together.
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If I would come back
like this all of a sudden…
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It’s so difficult.
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Then bring them along with you.
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And then…
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Father
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Father if you will not come…
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Hey
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Then I will not open the door of my room
on the day of engagement.
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Oh why are you crying
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Listen to me…
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No I have said it.
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Listen to me.
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No no father.
I will not listen to anything.
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Oh why are you crying
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You will come. That’s it.
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Stop crying.
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What is this Haji Sb.
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We are packing to go further.
And you started packing to go back.
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What to do Mr. Abdul Bari
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Storm has stopped my voyage.
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How can I go further now
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What storm
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My mother has cried.
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Mother
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Yes.
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She is my niece. Ayesha.
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We have named her over my mother.
She has become my mother.
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We have fixed her engagement.
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She says that you have to come.
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And the threat is that if I wouldn’t go
she won’t step out of the room.
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What to do
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But Haji Sb.
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I have informed all my friends.
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We are awaited everywhere.
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Preparations for the dinners are done.
There are spiritual meetings too.
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You will enjoy the beauty of the nature.
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Where are you going leaving behind all of this
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I have fed her in my laps Molvi Sb.
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Now she has requested.
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What to do then
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How can I ignore her request
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We will not enjoy in your absence.
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Some other time.
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Let’s go.
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Son pick up this suitcase.
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Come.
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Let’s go then.
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Okay go.
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Okay then.
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Greetings.
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As soon as I will be
free from the engagement
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I will come back to you.
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Greetings Haji Sb.
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Greetings.
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Your entrustment.
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Brother I asked you
to make her stay at home.
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That’s fine Haji Sb.
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But I am unable to guard anymore.
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What does that mean
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The brother of her deceased husband
has come from Afghanistan.
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He wishes to marry her.
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Yes
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then it’s fine.
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If she is ready
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then wed her off.
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I don’t have any objection.
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She is not ready Haji Sb.
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If she is not ready then just say no.
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He will force me.
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He is a tyrant man.
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No brother no.
Don’t oppress me with this.
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You ill-fated what oppression
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Am I selling you off
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I am making you get married.
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No brother no.
I will not go with anyone else.
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I am bringing the priest
with him in the evening.
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Get ready.
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Do you understand
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No brother no.
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I will go to the graveyard
and will live with that grave.
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But not with anyone else.
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Come on son. Let’s go.
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Haji Sb. has chosen
this man for you to marry.
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Why lady
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What’s the flaw in him
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He is young and healthy.
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He is the seeker of the religion.
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He is being at service of the house of Allah.
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He can arrange for your expenses.
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Lady what do you want
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What do you need more than this
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A person brings his fate himself.
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Have faith. Allah will bless you more.
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He will bless you even further.
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Speak up.
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Speak with your tongue.
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What objection do you have
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You are a widow.
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And I am a virgin.
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Neither I have a wife
nor do I have children.
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Yes I do have a mother
who lives in the village with my sister.
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Here there is no problem of doing chores
nor is there any problem related to food.
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Roof over the head with a mattress
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no issues for the food too.
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You will live with respect and peace.
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Speak with your tongue.
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Why don’t you say something
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Make a deal.
I will save a few bucks too.
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Dude talk to him.
Explain it to her in your way.
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What do you think
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She will not marry anyone
other than Haji Sb.
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No one else.
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Dude Abdullah
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Explain it to her.
Talk to her.
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I did. She won’t agree.
She won’t agree.
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Haji Sb.
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She is not ready to marry
anyone other than you.
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Even if someone comes from the skies.
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Oh brother. It’s the engagement of my niece.
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I must leave under any circumstances.
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I don’t have time at all.
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One bus has left. I got a seat
on another bus with so much difficulty.
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And in this scenario you stopped my way.
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Tell me what should I do
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Haji Sb. he is such an oppressor.
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He got married to three women.
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He oppresses all the three women every day.
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He hands over the whip to one wife
and asks her to beat the other.
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He makes the spectacle himself.
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In the snowfall at the Zamanastan
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he buried one wife down till here.
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He broke the leg of one wife. Why
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Because she left the house without his permission
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to find her baby.
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She is your entrustment Haji Sb.
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Whatever you order.
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If you say I will hand her over to that oppressor.
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Hey why do you want
to send her off with that oppressor
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Hafiz Ghulam Sarwar is here.
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He is a suitable person.
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Hey why doesn’t she marry him
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He will not oppress her.
I take the guarantee.
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Oh madam. Why don’t you
marry Ghulam Sarwar
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She just wants to go
with you Haji Sb.
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Oh brother Why with me With what status
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Oh listen to me.
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I am 51 years old.
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Fifty-one.
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And the type of life I have lived
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I never thought about my wedding.
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Nor did I get a chance to think about it.
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And nor do I have any intention in the future.
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Oh I cannot have any relation with this madam.
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And nor can I take her along
with me without any relation.
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Now you tell me.
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What should I do
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Oh tell me.
What should I do
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Where are you making me stuck dude
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And you…
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Do one thing.
I am going to make ablution.
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You think carefully.
Tell me after thinking carefully.
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That what should we do
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Then I will definitely leave.
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Haji Sb.
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Wh Zubaida
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Aunt
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Take this dress from her.
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Hang it in the cupboard.
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It’s the entrustment.
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Now how will another dress
be arranged this early
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I will get the dress ready in a day.
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Why Why will you get it ready
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I will wear this same dress aunt.
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I know really well
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why she is doing all of this.
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My daughter is involved with her as well.
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There is the fashion of antique nowadays.
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I know everything.
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These girls are doing the same.
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Long dresses of their mothers and grandmothers
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the shining dupattas of their mothers.
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They are wearing all these.
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These are girls.
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What happened to both of you Yes
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You bowed your head down
in front of her wishes
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I took permission from father.
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And when he has no problem
what problem do you people have
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Child
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Poor thing will never say no to anyone.
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He has fulfilled everyone’s wishes all his life.
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You are wearing his dress.
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And above all you are
also calling him being stubborn.
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Believe me I forbade her a lot but…
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Look sister.
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Brother is the eldest in our house.
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It is very important for him
to attend this wedding.
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If he will not be there
people will say so many things.
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Now we cannot tell this to everyone that
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brother has left everything
and gone to the path of Allah.
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If you ask me honestly Qayyum
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I feel so ashamed.
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I can’t face anyone
whenever there is a wedding.
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Oh! He is wandering around
after making all of us settle down.
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In the name of Allah.
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Bibi War Bina
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daughter of Haji Mehran Khan
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you are to marry against
the dower of PKR Two Lac
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Haji Mushtaq son of Haji Manzoor.
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Do you accept it
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I accept.
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I accept.
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Haji Mushtaq son of Haji Manzoor
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you are to marry against
the dower of PKR Two Lac
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Bibi War Bina daughter
of Haji Mehran Khan.
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Do you accept it
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Yes I accept.
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Congratulations. Congratulations.
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Congratulations.
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Take it.
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May you never have pain in your hand.
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What
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What are you saying
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Are you in pain
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Where
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Haji Sb.
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She is saying that may you
never have pain in your hand.
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By the way the say the same prayer
to everyone who feeds them.
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You know Pashtu
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No.
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But living with these people
I can speak a little bit.
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Then come and ask her
will she east anything Ak her.
-
Haji Sb. is asking that
will you eat bread
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No my heart is pounding.
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What is she saying
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She is saying that
she doesn’t want to eat.
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Doesn’t want to eat
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Haji Sb. now you will have to learn Pashtu too.
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Otherwise how will you talk to your wife
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What will people say
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How can you do this
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Atleast think of Allah.
-
Haji Sb.
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Haji Sb.
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She is saying she doesn’t
want to have tea.
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Why not
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She is hungry since morning.
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She has come here all
the way from Mardan. And then these vomits…
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Haji Sb. you are amazing.
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New bride doesn’t ask for anything by herself.
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One must request her and pamper her.
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Listen to me
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Here drink tea.
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No.
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Drink a little.
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You are hungry since morning.
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You have come here from Mardan.
You didn’t eat or drink anything.
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Then why are you doing so
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Here hold it.
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Drink it come on.
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Carefully.
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Thanks.
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Hey you remember
why I agreed right
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I remember.
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So then
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Why are you doing so
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These tantrums like new brides…
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These are not tantrums rather my illness.
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What I said to him
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don’t forget it.
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[speaks Pashtu]
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She is asking you to have mercy on me.
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I am a poor woman.
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[speaks Pashtu]
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I want to be your servant and be at your service.
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[speaks Pashtu]
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Take me with you.
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For Allah’s sake. Have mercy on me.
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Any whereabouts of brother Zakir
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Greetings.
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Greetings.
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Greetings.
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Greetings.
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Sister you could have come
with the groom.
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What was the need to come
before couple of minutes
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There was too much traffic
on the road. What to do
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She is absolutely right.
There was so much traffic.
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There were too many cars
right in front of each other.
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Oh brother Zakir. Leave it.
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I have also come from the saw way.
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I came so early.
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It wouldn’t have taken
me 20 mins rather 18 or so.
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Greetings.
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Greetings.
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Yes yes.
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Dude you are right. But there is a difference between
the car and a motorcycle dude.
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Yes brother Zakir.
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Like there is a difference in the makeup.
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Hey I applied less makeup than you.
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Zubaida why don’t you tell her
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Sister Leave it.
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You should have come before anyone else.
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Now see Chammo is here since morning.
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Zubaida you too
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If I were there at her place
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alone like her
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then I would have stayed here at night.
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I wouldn’t even leave.
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What to do
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I have three people tied with me.
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Manahil’s school Zakir’s office
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And Bilal’s tuition what should I do
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Yes sister.
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You are right.
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This is also my fault
that I am alone.
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I don’t have children
so I have no excuses.
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What is wrong with you
Chammo my love
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I didn’t mean to say this.
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If you live with them for a couple of days
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you will smack your head.
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They throw these many tantrums.
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They want to eat this at this time.
They don’t want to eat that at that time.
-
Now they will eat. Now they don’t.
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Give this give that.
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By the way with sorry sister.
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You meant to say the same.
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Leave it sister.
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Let me go see Ayesha.
WoShe is crying a lot.
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Don’t know where sister is.
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Let me go attend the guests too.
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Where is brother
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Does anyone even
know about him or not
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You didn’t do good
to wear my dress Ayesha.
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Aunt Shamim it’s about your fate.
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Have a seat.
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Oho what are you sitting
like a groom Smile a little.
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Father come.
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Father has come.
-
Father
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I knew you
will come for sure.
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Now are you happy that
your father has come
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Who is she
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Oh you thief…
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A thief.
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A thief a thief a thief.
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Oh this is the thief.
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Oh what are you people doing
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Oh tell me.
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Oh look. What is he doing