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Dan Siegel, M.D. - Discussing the science of mindfulness

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    My name is Dan Siegel.
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    My university is
    UCLA and my specialty
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    is I'm a child, adolescent
    and adult psychiatrist.
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    I'm at the Mindsight Institute,
    which is not a part of UCLA.
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    So in terms of my affiliation,
    that's really where I work.
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    I'm also a clinical
    faculty member at UCLA.
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    And I run with Sue
    Smalley the research
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    program called The
    Mindful Awareness Research
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    Center at UCLA.
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    So that's just the formal stuff.
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    So the interest in
    mindfulness at a university,
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    I think comes from the findings
    inspired by mindfulness practice
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    and then researched by people
    like Jon Kabat-Zinn and Richie
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    Davidson, that adults who focus
    their attention in a mindful
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    way in a training period
    of about eight weeks,
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    could actually change the
    way their brain functioned.
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    That finding, along with
    some amazing discoveries
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    in neuroscience, that
    the brain continues
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    to change throughout
    the lifespan,
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    not just in childhood,
    really I think
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    got people very
    interested in how
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    to use the mind to
    change the structure
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    and function of the brain.
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    So that's for use in adults.
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    For children, we're very
    interested in seeing
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    if education can develop parts
    of the brain that develop early
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    on, called the prefrontal
    areas, the part just
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    behind the forehead
    that help give you
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    the capacity, for example,
    to pause before you act
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    or to have empathy for others.
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    And at this point, education,
    for the most part focusing
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    on reading, writing
    and arithmetic
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    is not helping the prefrontal
    cortex develop directly.
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    We need to add a
    fourth R, what you
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    can call the fourth R of
    reflection and reflective skills
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    allow a child to develop
    these prefrontal abilities
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    and so that they can
    really develop what
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    are called executive functions.
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    We've done a pilot study to
    show that if you can teach
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    mindfulness to
    teenagers and adults
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    with attention deficit
    issues, you actually
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    can improve their attention
    functioning even more than you
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    do with medications.
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    So this is the idea of
    meditation, not medication.
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    But combined together we feel
    that even medications plus mind
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    training that is mindful
    awareness practices like yoga
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    or meditation,
    would help develop
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    these prefrontal circuits
    in the brain that
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    seem not to function too well
    in attention deficit problems.
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    Other areas at
    UCLA, other people
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    have been studying issues like
    David Creswell has studied
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    mindful awareness traits and
    has shown, in fact, that people
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    with mindful awareness traits
    this capacity, for example,
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    to be non-judgmental,
    to not be reactive,
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    to be very aware
    of what's going on.
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    Those are some of the
    traits, those individuals
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    can actually use their
    brain in certain ways
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    differently to calm a very
    reactive, lower emotional center
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    of the brain, whereas
    people who are not mindful
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    don't have that skill.
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    And there's an example of using
    naming where you name an emotion
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    to tame the internal world.
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    That's a very useful ability.
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    So if a child, for
    example, is feeling angry,
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    if they've developed mindfulness
    and they say I'm angry,
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    that can help calm
    the whole state down.
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    But if they haven't had
    mindfulness training,
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    it won't necessarily help them.
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    The pilot study that was
    done showed that, in fact,
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    kids with more challenges
    to their executive functions
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    got much more
    improvement than kids
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    who didn't have difficulties.
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    Now, we need to do
    a follow up study
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    to see what exactly that
    means in a larger sample
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    and do more controlled examples
    of kids who are like that,
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    not like that.
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    And what were the essential
    components that helped.
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    But we did, in fact,
    in this pilot study
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    with inner kids
    with Susan Kaiser,
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    Greenland work show that the
    kids with more challenging
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    situations got better.
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    It's not that surprising when
    you think that you're really
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    trying to support the
    development of a part
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    of the brain that,
    if it's challenged,
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    will be eager to
    develop, if you will.
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    And if that brain is already
    pretty well developed,
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    well, there's not
    much more to add.
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    One way of understanding
    how mindfulness works,
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    is by looking into the
    circuitry of the brain.
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    And so we all have
    actually a handy model
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    of the brain, which
    is actually our hand.
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    So if you take your
    hand and fold your thumb
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    into the middle of your
    palm and your fingers over,
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    this would be an
    example of a brain
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    where the person's
    eyes are here,
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    at the top of
    their head is here,
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    their brain is connected
    to the body itself
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    at the spinal cord, which is
    represented in your wrist.
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    The way the brain is
    composed, its architecture
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    helps us understand
    how mindfulness works.
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    If you lift your fingers
    up and lift your thumb up,
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    we go to the first part of
    the brain in the skull, which
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    is here called the brain stem.
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    And this is where you have
    the regulation of the body
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    and where you also have the
    fight, flight, and freeze
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    response that are created.
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    This area of the brain
    stem, a very primitive area,
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    works together
    with the next area
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    that's on top of it,
    called the limbic area.
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    And this is represented
    by the thumb.
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    The limbic area helps
    generate our emotions.
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    There are parts of it that
    help us feel our feelings.
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    We also distinguish
    different aspects of memory.
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    And in particular
    this limbic area
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    responds to our relationships.
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    OK.
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    Now, this limbic area
    and brainstem area,
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    they work together.
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    And because these are
    below the next area
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    of the brain, the cortex,
    we call them subcortical.
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    A lot of our impulses are
    automatic behaviors are just
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    innate-learned
    reactions to things.
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    Our instincts are driven
    by these subcortical areas,
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    including information
    that comes up
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    from the body itself,
    your heart pounding,
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    your intestines
    churning, feed up
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    to the limbic area
    in the brainstem
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    and get you all revved up.
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    So that's a loop
    that creates what
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    we call our emotional state.
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    The cortex developed
    when we became mammals,
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    also as the limbic area did.
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    But the front part
    of this cortex,
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    from your second to
    last, knuckles down
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    to your fingernails,
    the front part developed
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    when we became primates.
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    And this part where
    your fingernails are
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    is called the prefrontal cortex,
    because it's the front most
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    part of the frontal lobe.
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    This is the part that's
    most developed in humans,
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    and it's this part that
    gives us the ability to pause
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    before acting on an impulse.
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    And the way it works is there
    are fibers that come down
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    from this middle prefrontal
    area that actually calm down
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    the irritable limbic
    area or brainstem area.
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    Literally, this
    prefrontal region
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    regulates the lower
    subcortical, limbic, brainstem
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    and even bodily areas.
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    So in many ways, what we
    think happens is mindful
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    awareness practice
    creates a state
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    of activation in that
    moment that in a way
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    harnesses the power of this
    prefrontal area in that moment.
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    As you repeatedly
    practice something,
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    that state can become a trait
    because neurons which are
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    firing together wire together.
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    So with the strengthening of
    this prefrontal area, what
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    happens is, for example,
    if a child is angry
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    and the brainstem is
    activating a fight response,
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    the limbic area works with that
    to develop a feeling of fear.
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    There's a sense of
    betrayal by what happens.
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    So you're really angry,
    you're burning up,
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    your heart is pounding,
    and everything
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    is going to get you to fight,
    to get a knife, to get a gun,
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    to hit someone, to do
    something really violent.
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    But your prefrontal
    cortex has you pause.
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    And the very parts of the
    brain that allow you to pause
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    are also the same
    part of the brain,
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    this middle prefrontal area
    that allows you to have
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    insight into what's going on.
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    My heart's pounding.
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    I'm really angry.
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    Empathy for someone else.
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    Maybe that guy didn't
    mean it, or maybe he's
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    doing the best he can.
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    And then even a
    sense of morality.
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    So when we develop the
    middle prefrontal areas,
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    we actually can not
    only pause, but we
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    can think of the
    larger social good
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    and enact a behavior
    that's better for everyone.
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    And that's where
    mindfulness really
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    alters things like bullying,
    like violent acts of aggression.
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    And it's where mindfulness
    can change the world.
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    Literally one person, one
    relationship at a time.
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    It is possible
    that if, let's say
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    I've practiced mindfulness
    for a year or eight weeks
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    or whatever I've done,
    that I've learned
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    a different way of actually
    living in the world.
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    So you may not notice, but I
    may be practicing mindfulness
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    right now.
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    So I'm not doing a formal
    sitting and no one's teased
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    that apart yet.
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    If you've become a way
    of living mindfully,
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    is that actually
    something that keeps
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    on perpetuating the positive
    benefits of mindfulness.
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    And I my gut
    feeling is, in fact,
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    that that's true, that
    even just giving kids
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    a limited exposure to
    mindfulness and reminders
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    to do it, even if they
    don't do a regular practice,
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    they'll have incorporated
    that into their lives.
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    And they'll say things like,
    I need to watch my breathing,
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    or I know there's
    an alternative way,
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    or why can't I do
    this mindfully?
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    Especially with children who
    soak up things like a sponge,
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    you're giving them
    this tool, I think,
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    can change the direction
    of their development
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    for the rest of their lives.
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    We do work in
    preschools because there
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    is evidence to suggest
    that the ability
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    to have executive functions,
    the regulation of attention,
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    gets fairly well-matured
    at age seven.
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    That's pretty young.
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    So why not teach some kids tools
    of strengthening their capacity
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    to focus attention long
    before they're seven?
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    So that's why we've
    gone into preschools.
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    As those circuits, those
    prefrontal circuits mature,
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    you have the opportunity
    to find the way
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    that even as kids get
    older, after seven,
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    you can still help them improve.
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    After all, we've done a study
    on adolescents and adults,
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    so the brain continues to
    change throughout the lifespan.
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    The studies on mindfulness and
    most have been done on adults.
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    And there you see
    that adults can change
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    after an eight-week program.
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    So much so you can see shifts in
    the brain where the brain gets
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    into what's called an approach
    state rather than a withdrawal
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    state, a sign of resilience.
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    They can really stay with
    things that are even difficult.
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    You can show that adults
    have all sorts of capacities
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    to discern, or to tell what's
    going on in their inner world,
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    when people who haven't had
    the training can't do that.
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    So even an eight-week
    training can
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    have interesting and important
    effects on the brain of adults,
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    there's no reason to think
    it wouldn't be useful
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    also for kids, even
    after the age of seven,
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    when their executive
    functions have
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    matured to a certain extent.
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    It helps kids become
    kinder to themselves,
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    kinder to each other.
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    It helps them be more empathic.
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    It can help them have more
    regulation of their emotions,
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    so they're more even keel.
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    It helps kids, even if
    you see the CASEL work
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    and interpret that work
    on social and emotional
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    intelligence, and interpret
    that as a way of becoming more
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    internally focused on
    oneself and others,
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    that work on the CASEL
    Program shows that kids also
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    do better academically.
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    So if we extend
    their important work
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    to the general notion
    of being reflective
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    and think of that as
    a form of mindfulness,
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    then you could say that
    that specific kind of work,
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    the social and emotional
    intelligence work,
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    promotes academic
    excellence as well.
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    The CASEL work is the
    Consortium for Academic, Social
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    and Emotional Learning.
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    It's a program based
    out of Illinois
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    that has been studied
    in intervention program
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    to teach kids to be aware
    of their emotional state,
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    how to modulate
    their internal state,
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    had to figure out
    how to problem-solve,
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    how to be aware of
    other people's emotions,
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    and how to help communicate with
    those emotions more effectively.
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    Those are the five basic things
    essentially, that CASEL does.
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    They've studied their
    intervention program
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    about 200 schools.
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    They don't use the
    word mindfulness,
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    but their techniques
    are very much, I think,
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    a fundamental way that
    kids look internally,
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    what you might call
    internal education
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    or what I call the fourth R,
    basically reflective skills.
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    These ways of knowing the
    internal world and how
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    to change it, allow
    you to have mindsight
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    to see and change the mind.
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    And these are basically what we
    learn when we learn mindfulness.
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    Some people don't take
    to certain techniques
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    and they take to others.
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    For example, some
    people don't really
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    like focusing on
    their breath and they
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    prefer a movement like yoga.
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    Some people like
    something that's
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    more dynamic, like Tai Chi.
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    So when people don't
    respond, it doesn't
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    mean mindfulness
    isn't good for them.
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    It may mean that particular
    mindful awareness practice just
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    didn't suit their physiology or
    their temperament or whatever.
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    So I think we can say
    that mindfulness could
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    be helpful to Everyone,
    It's just which way
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    are they going to learn it?
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    So that's for the
    generality of it.
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    In terms of the
    consistency of the results,
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    mindfulness needs to be taught
    by people who are themselves
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    practicing mindfulness.
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    I think that's what a lot
    of experts are suggesting.
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    And some of the
    research in the work
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    on applying it, let's say
    for people who are depressed
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    and preventing depression,
    has shown that you really
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    need to have the actual
    clinician practicing
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    mindfulness.
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    So it would be an
    interesting study
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    to do that, I think is being
    carried out now by the Garrison
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    Institute to see the difference
    between mindfulness teaching
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    from a mindfulness teacher
    versus teaching mindfulness
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    techniques, to a teacher who's
    never learned mindfulness,
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    and whether that makes a
    difference for the students.
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    The question of taking time in
    a busy school day to teach kids
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    reflective skills,
    mindfulness skills,
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    the ability to look at the inner
    world, all these being names
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    for the same experience.
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    Those skills actually can
    help kids academically.
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    So while it may take
    a little bit of time,
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    it actually can
    increase the efficiency
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    at which kids learn and can
    improve their social skills,
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    their social relationships,
    their emotional skills,
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    their ability to
    be in relationship
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    with their own
    inner world, so on.
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    So in all those ways,
    while it takes clock time,
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    it actually is worth
    every second of that.
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    In a way what mindfulness
    education does
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    is it trains the
    prefrontal cortex that
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    helps keep the whole
    system in balance
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    and helps you have
    empathic relationships,
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    so that we're actually
    teaching something
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    that isn't taught in any
    other part of the curriculum.
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    You can almost argue
    that mindfulness
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    ought to be the first
    basic skill that's taught,
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    so that all the rest
    follows after that.
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    Regarding the question
    of negative effects,
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    one of the things that being
    mindful and being taught
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    mindfulness skills does,
    is get kids in touch
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    with their inner world.
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    So one of the programs
    that I consult to
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    has found that kids become more
    aware of their inner memories
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    and emotions.
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    So schools have to be prepared
    that if a child is being
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    mistreated at home, if a child
    had frightening experiences,
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    they may get more in
    touch with the memories
  • 16:05 - 16:07
    and feelings of
    those experiences
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    and bring them up in classrooms.
  • 16:10 - 16:13
    And teachers may feel, as
    one teacher said to me,
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    that a Pandora's
    box was opened up.
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    My feeling about it is that as
    a community of caring adults,
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    we need to provide children who
    spend so many hours in schools
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    with an opportunity
    to know themselves.
  • 16:29 - 16:33
    And in the short run, there
    may be things teachers
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    have to do to get
    support for that child,
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    bring the family in, be helpful
    in whatever ways they can.
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    In the medium run
    and long run, it's
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    all good because if
    a child has something
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    going on inside of herself
    that she's never talked about,
  • 16:50 - 16:53
    it's better that she
    talk about it then,
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    rather than 10 years
    later, when she'll
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    use up huge amounts of personal
    resources, social resources,
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    and create unbelievable
    pain in the next generation
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    if she isn't given the
    opportunity to work on that.
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    So in the big picture,
    mindfulness can help,
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    even if it brings up
    emotions that a child feels
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    they're not ready to deal with.
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    If all schools took
    mindfulness on as a basic skill
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    to teach all children,
    there's a potential for there
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    to be a huge shift in how
    the next generation brings
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    their minds, their hearts,
    their whole relational abilities
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    to be connected with each
    other into the world.
  • 17:39 - 17:42
    And so this isn't just
    about stress reduction,
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    or certainly not just about
    relaxation, which mindfulness
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    is not.
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    Mindfulness is really
    a lifelong skill
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    that can change the
    individual's life for the better
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    relationships that child has in
    his or her life, for the better.
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    And in that way, one
    relationship at a time
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    improved the world.
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    I've heard stories of kids who
    come home from school having
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    learned a mindful awareness
    practice like meditation
  • 18:09 - 18:12
    or yoga, who when their
    parents are getting
  • 18:12 - 18:16
    in a tense moment
    of friction, will
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    ask the parents to do a focusing
    on their breath or stretch.
  • 18:20 - 18:24
    And I think children can
    be our best teachers.
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    They can teach us
    not only by example,
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    but literally teaching us the
    skills that they're learning.
  • 18:29 - 18:32
    And my experience as
    a child psychiatrist
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    has been that when
    kids in my practice
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    are learning mindfulness
    skills, the parents quickly
  • 18:37 - 18:40
    come in to learn them
    themselves because they
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    see the changes that
    happen in the children.
  • 18:43 - 18:47
    And I'm thrilled that this can
    be a family event because just
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    like family meetings,
    you can have
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    family discussions about the
    internal world sharing family
  • 18:52 - 18:55
    time, mindfulness is an
    opportunity to actually get
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    closer with each other.
  • 18:56 - 18:58
    We're just beginning
    to do studies
  • 18:58 - 19:01
    on mindfulness
    interventions with kids,
  • 19:01 - 19:05
    so we don't have the
    long-term studies yet.
  • 19:05 - 19:08
    But I can tell you in my own
    practice of teaching mindfulness
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    to my patients that what
    they tell me about, which
  • 19:12 - 19:15
    is so rewarding
    to hear about, is
  • 19:15 - 19:17
    that when these
    kids have learned
  • 19:17 - 19:20
    to know their own
    internal world,
  • 19:20 - 19:24
    to be able to be present
    with their own emotions,
  • 19:24 - 19:27
    to learn mindfulness
    techniques so they can actually
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    bring stability and
    clarity to their own mind,
  • 19:31 - 19:34
    the course of their
    life is different.
  • 19:34 - 19:37
    This is for kids who maybe
    are a little anxious,
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    or kids who have
    mood issues that
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    are going wild in their lives.
  • 19:40 - 19:42
    The stability and
    clarity of being
  • 19:42 - 19:45
    able to stay present
    and let emotions
  • 19:45 - 19:47
    arise and fall
    without being swept up
  • 19:47 - 19:50
    by them, changes everything.
  • 19:50 - 19:55
    If we take these positive
    outcomes, and this
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    is from experiencing children up
    close and personal for sometimes
  • 19:59 - 20:02
    years at a time, and seeing
    how it changed their lives.
  • 20:02 - 20:04
    And we see how,
    in fact, this may
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    be helpful to kids in general
    to learn these skills,
  • 20:06 - 20:09
    then a child who
    may not know how
  • 20:09 - 20:11
    to understand
    their own emotions,
  • 20:11 - 20:15
    may not have kindness
    toward themselves,
  • 20:15 - 20:18
    may not know how to read
    other people's feelings.
  • 20:18 - 20:20
    This changes the whole
    course of their life,
  • 20:20 - 20:25
    because you're giving them
    a life skill that helps them
  • 20:25 - 20:28
    move deeply into inner knowing.
  • 20:28 - 20:31
    And an inner clarity
    that we can see
  • 20:31 - 20:35
    is an invitation for
    meaning and connection,
  • 20:35 - 20:37
    both with oneself and
    with other people.
  • 20:37 - 20:41
    That gift of mindfulness is
    a gift that keeps on giving,
  • 20:41 - 20:44
    because that child will be
    able to have relationships
  • 20:44 - 20:47
    with others in their
    childhood and adolescence.
  • 20:47 - 20:50
    By preparing them before
    the teenage years,
  • 20:50 - 20:52
    they're going to have a skill
    that will continue with them.
  • 20:52 - 20:55
    And then when they go on
    to have their own children,
  • 20:55 - 20:58
    you'll see an outcome
    of secure attachment
  • 20:58 - 21:02
    that itself may promote these
    aspects of a mindful life.
Title:
Dan Siegel, M.D. - Discussing the science of mindfulness
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