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Parents Struggle With Aggressive 4 Year Old | Supernanny

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    >> Meet Chris and Nikki
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    and their
    two children,
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    15-month-old McKenzie,
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    and big brother
    Cameron, who is four.
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    Cameron's violent
    outbursts and
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    relentless tantrums
    are pushing
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    this household
    to the brink.
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    >> I do dread getting
    up in the morning.
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    I don't know what
    to do with him.
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    He controls the
    whole family.
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    When Cameron kicks off,
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    he can bite, kick, spit,
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    hit, slam doors,
    throw things around,
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    and be quite
    destructive, as well.
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    >> We'll physically have
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    to rip him off
    the banisters.
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    >> Chris' answer is to
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    shut Cameron in his room.
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    >> But we can be
    stuck up there for
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    an hour and still have
    the same behavior.
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    He'll kick and then scream
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    and he'll bang the door.
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    You'll then be
    in a tug of war
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    on a door with a
    4-year-old child.
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    >> Cameron's out of
    control behavior
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    isn't limited to
    the family home.
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    >> Cameron has now
    actually been asked
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    to leave the nursery.
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    He has smacked staff,
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    bitten staff, the
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    same to other
    children as well.
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    If we don't get
    his behavior
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    sorted before he starts
    school in September,
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    I am quite worried
    that he's going to be
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    excluded from every school
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    in this borough. I will.
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    >> Nikki and Chris believe
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    a family tragedy may have
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    had a lasting
    impact on Cameron.
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    >> Some of Cameron's
    bad behavior could be
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    put down to the fact that
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    his younger brother died,
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    and Cameron was only two
    and 1/2 at the time.
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    >> Josh was 11 months old
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    when they lost
    him to cot death.
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    >> Things like
    that teach you
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    that there isn't
    always a tomorrow,
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    and sometimes I feel
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    like it's just for today.
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    Which is probably
    why I don't
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    discipline him as
    much as I should.
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    >> Nikki's reluctance
    to reprimand
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    Cameron is a source
    of conflict.
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    >> I don't think you
    discipline him at all.
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    >> I just feel sometimes
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    that he's so naughty,
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    and everyone's
    always cross at him,
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    that if I wasn't
    there for him
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    to give him a cuddle,
    then nobody would.
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    I don't know how
    much more of
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    all this that we can
    all take as a family,
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    of mine and Chris'
    relationship.
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    >> Super nanny Jo Frost is
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    the last hope for
    Nikki and Chris.
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    She spent 17 years
    transforming
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    nightmare offspring
    into model children.
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    But how will she
    handle 10 rounds
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    with the mighty Cameron?
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    >> Hello.
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    >> Hello. Pleased to
    me you, I'm Nikki.
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    >> I'm Jo.
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    >> Hi Jo. nice to meet
    you. I'll have to
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    swap hands,
    unfortuntely, sorry.
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    >> You broke
    your hand there.
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    >> This is Cameron.
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    >> You say hello.
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    >> Hi, little one.
    Hi, say hello.
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    So pleased to meet you.
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    Who's this
    little one here?
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    >> He is McKenzie.
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    >> Hello. And how
    old's McKenzie?
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    McKenzie, he's
    15 months now.
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    >> Fifteen months.
    Hello, sweetie.
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    I just want you
    to carry on
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    today as you would
    any other day.
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    >> I need you to go and
    brush your teeth now.
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    >> Cameron.
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    Let's go brush your
    teeth, Cameron.
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    >> Before she can fix
    the family's problems,
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    superanny needs to
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    observe their
    normal behavior.
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    And the first thing to
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    come to her attention is
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    Baby McKenzie's stuck
    in his playpen.
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    >> How long do you think
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    he spends in this a day?
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    >> He probably spend
    about 6 hours in there.
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    I know, he's probably
    only up for 12,
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    that's half the time
    he's at daycare.
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    Because most of our
    time we're running
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    around after Cameron.
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    >> Six hours.
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    McKenzie should be
    stimulated, exploring.
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    It's all about
    his development.
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    How is he able to do that
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    when he's not even
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    allowed outside
    the playpen.
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    >> Super nanny
    doesn't have long to
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    wait to see
    Cameron in action.
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    >> You're not climbing
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    up that, Don't hit me.
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    No, you're not
    climbing up there.
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    It will not take your
    weight. Stop it.
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    >> What did he just
    stab in the chest for?
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    >> Because I won't let
    him climb up there.
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    >> When he doesn't
    get his own way,
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    is that what he
    results to? Physical.
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    >> Smacking, kicking,
    and spitting, yeah.
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    >> No, Cameron.
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    >> No.
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    >> Is Finn in there?
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    >> Yes.
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    >> There's no discipline
    in the house.
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    >> I need you to
    sit down for me.
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    >> No.
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    >> There's no order.
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Parents Struggle With Aggressive 4 Year Old | Supernanny
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