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FOX NEWS PRESENTER: We see them all the time, Facebook status updates that make us just roll our eyes.
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But the next time you see a blustery college kid boast about how drunk they got the night
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before, you shouldn't just ignore it.
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A new study found that 1,700 college students die every year as a result of alcohol-related
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overdoses, injuries, or even car accidents.
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And because college kids don't go to the doctor's office, their alcohol abuse is not always
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picked up on.
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But websites like Facebook might actually offer a clue into whether or not a person's
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drinking has become harmful.
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And joining us this morning is Jada Collins, she is a mental health counselor with Total
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Life Counseling.
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Great to see you, Jada.
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We love having you.
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JADA COLLINS: Thank you.
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FOX NEWS PRESENTER: All right, so let's talk about this, because not only is this an issue with alcohol, but
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Facebook statuses really could be a clue into a multitude of problems in someone's life.
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JADA COLLINS: Absolutely, and I looked at this research and I thought it was fantastic for a number
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of reasons.
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But first, let's talk about social networking.
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It has completely changed our lives.
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We can do so many things.
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We connect in a different way, we relate in a different way, businesses, marketing and
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advertising, everything has changed.
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So I'm not at all surprised to see that behavioral researchers have kind of gotten into the picture
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as well.
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When we look at this research, we see something very clear.
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It's a correlation.
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It's a relationship between college students who are drinking way too much, but also posting
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it on Facebook.
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So now we're looking at something else.
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Well, let me say this first.
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We can't diagnose, obviously, from Facebook, but we can see the signs and symptoms that
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come from intoxication, alcohol abuse and alcohol use.
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FOX NEWS PRESENTER: This is an awkward thing for parents who sort of want to loosen up on the reins with their
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kids because they're experiencing freedom for the first time, but oftentimes they're
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not of legal age to be drinking and then the parents are hours away.
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So what can they really do?
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JADA COLLINS: Parents really, really, really need to hone in on what's going on with their children.
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And I know we say that all the time, but honestly, really, really take a look at what your kids
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are doing on Facebook and understand that they're not just having fun anymore.
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This is very serious because it's during those college teenage years that a lot of addictions
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develop.
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That's a very crucial transition.
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All of a sudden, mom and dad are telling them, you know, you can't do this, you can't do
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this, get up this time.
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But all of a sudden, they don't have that.
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They don't have those boundaries in place.
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But one thing in particular, they definitely have to have a talk with their children if
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they even suspect that they're drinking too much.
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FOX NEWS PRESENTER: And what kind of things do you say?
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JADA COLLINS: Oh, goodness.
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FOX NEWS PRESENTER: Where do we start?
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JADA COLLINS: Where do we start?
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What do we say?
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Well, first of all, understanding that if you're calling your child and they're not
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answering, that's a big problem.
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And that is a red flag, first of all.
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And, you know, make them talk to you.
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Make them tell you where they are.
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And I actually have a client that's going through this right now.
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And she was posting different things on Facebook.
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But we realized that there were some undergirded trauma going on that wasn't identified.
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So this is another way for us to be able to identify maybe some deeper issues, depression,
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anxiety.
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So what do you say to your children?
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What's going on?
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What can I do to help?
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How can I get into your mind and, you know, and help you through this time?
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Because obviously they're going through some other issues as well.
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FOX NEWS PRESENTER: Well, and it's interesting to note, too, that in this study that it said 64% of college kids
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don't put anything about alcohol in their status update or give any inkling that they're
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out partying or doing anything that might be inappropriate.
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So you really have to be able to read between the lines, too.
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JADA COLLINS: Absolutely.
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And the ambiguity that we see in college-age drinking, because they're always trying to
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hide it.
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FOX NEWS PRESENTER: Oh, sure.
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Right.
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JADA COLLINS: So they don't want their parents to know.
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But if behaviors start to change, again, here's more red flags.
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If they're missing class, if you had a perfect A student in high school and all of a sudden
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they're getting Cs and Ds, something's wrong.
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FOX NEWS PRESENTER: All right.
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Yeah, that's a big warning sign.
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All right.
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Jada Collins, Total Life Counseling.
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We always love having you.
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JADA COLLINS: Thank you.
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FOX NEWS PRESENTER: It's great advice for everyone.
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Thank you so much for being here. (MUSIC)