The REAL Effect of Ghosting People | Simon Sinek

think about the way we break up with

each other right i don't mean like

you go on one date you didn't like each

other and you just whatever that's fine

that was somebody for four months

something happens you meet somebody else

you decide you don't like them

whatever it is and so you just ghost

them yep drop that connection

just unfollow on all the social media

you just stop returning

replying to texts you stop stop

returning phone calls

you just pre it's as if you don't exist

and for the other person

it's panic as as if you've been killed

in a car accident

which is they don't know what's happened

to you they don't know where you are and

they don't know what's happened they

can't get

and then once they realize you're fine

because they can look on social media

and see you're fine

now the massive amounts of insecurity

what did i do was it me

oh it just it destroys someone's

self-worth

all because one person was too afraid to

have an uncomfortable difficult

conversation

scream shout yell i hate you you never

treated me right blah blah blah

good have closure you know but the fear

of confrontation to the point where you

would

literally destroy someone's innards that

will have lasting impact

on how they relate to people from now on

all because you're a little scared to

say i think we should break up and see

other people

or i met somebody else and i like them

more

that's that is that's a very difficult

conversation to have for anybody

that's not easy or fun but

one person's fear creates complete

destruction in another person's life

and somebody thinks that's fine and that

those are all skills learnable

practicable skills

that are unfortunately flowing by the

wayside