Being Deaf & Being Blind - Chatting Disability Stuff w/ Jessica Kellgren-Fozard!

I know exactly what you're saying when you

say like when you're sitting at home writing

you're not like, I'm deaf, I'm deaf

I'm deaf, I say the same for me

like when I'm

sitting around doing my makeup

I'm not like ooh I'm blind, I'm blind

Like, I'm not thinking about my

blindness, I'm just living my life

because this is our normal (Music)

Hello everybody, we are back

with my series , where I sit down

with another person

from the disability community

and we disscuss all things

life and disability related

and this one is probably the

most requested that I've seen.

So we finally have Jessica

and I'm gonna let you say your

last name

(Laughs) Jessica Kellgren-Fozard

It's ok, I know, it's a difficult surname

we literally like went over this before

we started filming

We've just been like talking on

Google Meet

And I was like, practicing the name

and I was like no, you know what,

I got here, I was too deep,

I was like, I'm jumping

out of the pool.

She'll take over. So thank you-

It's ok. It's complex.

The Kellgren bit is Swedish,

the Fozard is my wife's surname,

it's from Normandy, smush it together,

it's complicated for everyone.

Or Jessica Out Of The Closet,

which I think is a brilliant name

because not only are you one of

the most fabulous fashionistas

that I follow on social media,

but you are also in fact out of

the closet, and so I think it's just

such a fun username.

(Laughs) Yeah,

out of the closet in many ways.

Out of the gay closet, out of the

disability closet, just living life open.

That's the way to live life.

Being your best, most authentic,

confident queen self. And that is

exactly what you do.

I watch your videos and I

legitimately laugh out loud.

Like you're one of, not only the most

fashionable people I follow but one of

the funniest people I follow,

and I think that you, just by simply

being you, break so many disability

stereotypes and misconceptions,

and I think it's so fabulous for just-

so thank you for just exisiting

on the internet.

(Laughs) I mean, I could say

the same thing about you, Molly.

I woke up this morning and I was like,

OK, Molly, you have to try to look, like,

a little bit half fabulous

because you're going to be sitting next to

Jessica in a video and it's going

to be embarrassing.

Oh no, I think you are incredibly stylish,

I must say. I always enjoy

your Instagram as well.

Thank you, I appreciate it.

So, I know a ton of my audience

knows and loves your content already

but for those who don't, would you like to

kind of give the brief introduction of who

Jessica is in a nutshell.

My goodness, okay, the elevator pitch

of me, then, I guess.

So, I'm Jessica, I'm a YouTuber,

content creator. I make content that is

generally fun, informative, educational,

amusing, around things that are to do with

disability, chronic illness, and LGBTQ+

issues. So I have two genetic conditions,

hereditary neuropathy with pressure

palsies, which means that there are gaps

in the myelin sheaths around your nerves.

For me that means that I can paralyze

parts of myself, that my nerves are more

easily damaged, which does things like

affect my hearing and I have loss of

vision in one eye because of it, and it

can do things like my hands don't have

any feeling because I paralyzed both of

my arms for a year and a half when I was

a teenager. And they came back to a

certain degree, but they can't now feel

anything, so it's like wearing gloves

all of the time. And I don't get hot and

cold, any of those kinds of things,

or wet. Which is really annoying when

you're trying to hang up the washing,

'cause you're like, is this wet?

Is this dry? Absolutely no idea.

And I end up having to like, press my face

to all of my laundry to see whether it's

dry or not. Very strange thing.

And then you just get a random cheek stain

or random foundation stain on the side

of your white shirt.

I mean, I should add, I only do this when

I'm not wearing makeup. (Laughs)

Pro tip.

And then I also have Ehlers Danlos

Syndrome, which is about my connective

tissue, and means that not only am I

hyper mobile, and very flexible and bendy,

which most people think is like, whoa,

what a great party trick, and it is,

it's a pretty good party trick that I

perhaps overused when I was a child.

I dislocated various things just to prove

to people that I could. Don't do that.

That's a terrible idea. Don't do that.

But it also affects connective tissue in

things like my internal organs,

so I have some issues with my heart, and

I have postural orthostatic tachycardia

syndrome, which comes from that,

which is just a regulating blood pressure

issue, so I faint a lot. And I can't exert

myself too much, basically I go up two

flights of stairs and I'm like, oh gosh,

there's a heart attack coming.

Ok, wonderful, and then I've got to lie

on the floor for half an hour.

And the vintage fashion is just a layer

over the top, just to make everything look

gorgeous while we're

here. I think you should

make more fashion content.

I'm putting the pitch in now,

and I think a lot of people

in the comments will agree

that you should have like a whole segment

of your channel devoted to

fashion content because we need that

vintage inspo that you bring,

we need your vintage wisdom.

I was just, like, as we were talking

before we started filming, I was

peppering her with questions

about the vintage fashion scene

because I am fascinated by it

and whenever I've tried to do it,

it has (pause) not necessarily panned out

So, I feel like you should make fashion

videos and yknow when I started

doing fashion content

it was kind of like a total mistake

I wanted to make one video about, like,

accessibility in online shopping

and that was

supposed to be it.

But people requested me keep doing it

and I was like

"Well, If you want me to feed my addiction

and talk about something I love,

I am happy to do so"

There is people

in the disability activism community

who have been upset by that.

Like, they want me to kind of dedicate

my channel to disability.

And I can understand that, but

to me, I am a human

and disabilities are a very real,

important topic to me

and it affects my life daily,

but so does fashion

and the confidence that fashion gives me!

So does makeup,

so does my guide dog,

so does dating,

so do all these other aspects

and I think it's very important

for us, as a disability community,

to show society the human side

of our day-to-day life

and the very normal, average

human things that we love

and that we partake in.

Of course, of course

I always link this back to

children's books

because I think it's the easiest way

to understand people learning new concepts

So, there are so many children's books

that are about issues.

It's about

"Some people move in a wheelchair"

or "some people have 2 mums"

and kids don't love them,

they don't want to read those books,

because they're very much

focused on "this one object that you need

to learn." It's not fun!

Whereas, when they are reading

like a fun, adventure book

where "oh. the main character just

happens to have a disability"

or just happens to have a different

family setup to the nuclear family,

then it's more engaging

and they are more willing to learn things

And I know the great things about

having disabled content creators

who are creating content

that isn't just disability focused

is that you are also bringing in people

who wouldn't have necessarily have

clicked on your video,

being like "Ooh, I don't know,

i don't know i wanna

watch something about

a blind person

cause I've never really

met a blind person

and that could be awkward."

But if it's a video where you are

doing something else

and they click in,

they are like

"Well, you know what,

this is actually really interesting,

Imma keep watching her

other videos as well."

And then, it's just a great way

to lead people in, I think

And they start to really be

more involved in the issues,

it's not something that's far away

Now, it's "oh, my favourite

content creator Molly

also happens to have

a disability and

also happens to talk about that

And now I've learnt things about it"

So I always think that's the best way,

but, actually, Molly,

two birds, one stone,

to do with this fashion thing,

I think the next time you come

to England, I'm gonna have to give you

a vintage makeover.

Oh my gosh,

absolutely!!

Once this whole madness

in this world is done,

and we're all vaccinated,

I'm coming out to England,

so I can finally see my brother

for the first time

in over a year.

AND I can see you

and we are doing the vintage makeover

I'm absolutely holding you to that.

But I could not agree more with

what you've just said.

My favourite thing about what

I do is that I get to

make learning fun for people.

I get to teach

people in a way that entertains them

that truly is the best way to learn.

That's how I always

learned the most growing up

I was never somebody

who could sit in class

and hear you talk to me about something.

I need to be the one

that was getting up and doing it

I was a very kinesthetic learner

I need to be actually doing the thing

and immersed in it

to be able to understand it

and being able to

hopefully be entertaining to people

um, while they- they learn

and open their minds

to new ways of thinking

is so rewarding

so I completely agree with you

And I always say

we talk a lot in the disability community

about the fact that

y'know that we're quite low

on the totem pole of causes

and of things that people care about

and talk about or know about.

You know, you often see those like

"Diversity panels"

and it's like everything is shown

... except disability.

And we're like "Hey now,

"Hi"

"Where are we at the table"

I think so many different

brands and companies

think that they can kind of get away

doing the absolute least

when it comes to disability representation

Whether that be in adverts

or actually making things accessible.